Going out
I feel like a horrible mom, because I know I should take my 20 month old girl out almost everyday but I don’t feel like it at all. Firstly I work night shifts ( 4 nights in a week, some 3 nights back to back, 1 day off and the last night).
when I come back home i only get 2 hours sleep and I have to look after her because she hasn’t started nursery, make food and so on. My partner is just annoying and doesn’t help even when he’s currently not working right now. I still have to do everything for her.. and then I’m so tired and don’t feel like going out for a walk or any play gym.
I don’t know but I feel like I’m doing a bad job and not being a good mom at all.
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You are doing everything to provide for your kid, you are a good mother! 🫂♥️ I think you should talk with your partner the problem its him 😑🤦🏻♀️
Girl , you are doing amazingly !
Your partner needs to do more ? You don’t need to do any more, if anything you need to do less and relax mama !
You are hard working and a great mother don’t feel guilty 💕
Can you not speak to your partner about doing more, taking her/him to baby groups etc ?? Because a man should be pulling his weight especially when you’re doing all the hard work!
How the fuck are you getting 2 hours sleep while your partner isn't even working? He's not being annoying he's being a dick, a useless waste of space. He should be parenting. He shouldn't be leaving you to do everything. Honestly he belongs in the bin cos what's he even contributing at this point?
I get like this its okay dosnt make you a bad mum your human you get tired its alot sometimes don't be ashamed to stay in xxxx
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I feel like a horrible mom, because I know I should take my 20 month old girl out almost everyday but I don’t feel like it at all. Firstly I work night shifts ( 4 nights in a week, some 3 nights back to back, 1 day off and the last night).
when I come back home i only get 2 hours sleep and I have to look after her because she hasn’t started nursery, make food and so on. My partner is just annoying and doesn’t help even when he’s currently not working right now. I still have to do everything for her.. and then I’m so tired and don’t feel like going out for a walk or any play gym.
I don’t know but I feel like I’m doing a bad job and not being a good mom at all.
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