Im 40 years old, pregnant with my first and 39+5 days. Last week I had my last consultant appointment they recommended I be induced via ballon last week. I declined that as I want a natural birth without any intervention. I was then booked To see a doctor yesterday and CTG. I again declined being induced and wanted further monitoring till my due date 25th September. I’ve still got no signs of labour and have another scan and ctg booked tomorrow. They have also offered me a sweep tomorrow to get things moving and I’m still unsure if I want this. The only reason for sweeps and ballon induced method is my age. Doctors say if I want a sweep it has to start tomorrow incase it doesn’t work then they need to do another one or else will go straight for induction on Monday.
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Older mom here too 😀 honestly if you have a healthy pregnancy, your age only is not enough to rush things. Keep being monitored with water level and placenta quality and keep waiting. A pregnancy is not 40 weeks tops. A term baby could come anytime between 37 and 42 weeks (sometimes even a bit later). My first baby was born when I was 36 years old at 41 weeks. Let's see when this second baby will come bit nothing will be rushed unless a health issue shows up. All the best for you and your baby 🤗

I had an induction with my first baby at 40+1 weeks. I was 40. My doctor explained that the placenta can stop working as effectively in older moms later in the pregnancy. I was having testing and ultrasounds twice a week. In the end, I decide to move forward with an induction. I felt like something could happen between the screenings. I wasn’t willing to take that risk. I know there is a lot of negativity about inductions. I had zero signs of labor before I had mine. I had no complications and had a vaginal birth. I know it’s hard to know what the right decision is. Think hard about it and trust your instincts.

It is not uncommon at all to go over 40w for your first pregnancy. I was only 27 when I had my first & had to fight to keep from being induced, but the doctor made me feel awful so I gave in at 41w. My 2nd pregnancy was at 39, but he really did need to be induced at 37w, he was IUGR & my placenta was tiny & failing & we’d been watching it closely since 18w, my OB even scheduled several appointments so I didn’t have to be induced at 36w & miss my older son’s 12th birthday, if it had been a healthy pregnancy he would’ve never insisted I be induced, he’s not one of those doctors, he tried really hard to stick to my birthing plan. Idk why some act as though having babies 35-45yo is a new thing, when the only real new thing about it is that some of us are purposely waiting until then to have our first or second baby, no one bats an eye when women w/large families don’t stop until menopause, why should it be any different for us.🤷🏻♀️
Sorry but I just need to get this off my chest and to see if anyone else feels the same.
I’m currently 16 weeks pregnant and apart from the booking midwife appointment and scan I’ve had no support from the NHS what so ever. I was referred to a service but haven’t heard a thing and now this morning I nearly passed out on the train. Tried to call midwife but I cannot find a number and when I did they said if your under 17 weeks then call your gp. I just feel totally alone in this and have no one to ask any of the important questions like is nearly passing out normal!?

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looking for people who have had more positive inductions the second time round 🫣 i go in next week to get induced i was induced with my first but it took 5 days for her to come , i had the pessary then the gel twice , 2 sweeps and then got my waters broke at 1cm and put on the hormone drip which i was on for 13ish hours 😭i went in at 38+2 this time ill be 39 and as much as it wasn’t that bad other than being in for so long my little girl is autistic and im dreading being away from her for too long 🥲so im just looking to hear positive stories from people being induced the second time for some hope 🤣🤞🏻
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Im 40 years old, pregnant with my first and 39+5 days. Last week I had my last consultant appointment they recommended I be induced via ballon last week. I declined that as I want a natural birth without any intervention. I was then booked To see a doctor yesterday and CTG. I again declined being induced and wanted further monitoring till my due date 25th September. I’ve still got no signs of labour and have another scan and ctg booked tomorrow. They have also offered me a sweep tomorrow to get things moving and I’m still unsure if I want this. The only reason for sweeps and ballon induced method is my age. Doctors say if I want a sweep it has to start tomorrow incase it doesn’t work then they need to do another one or else will go straight for induction on Monday.
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