What's the problem? 🤨

It’s funny to me how some people are dumbfounded at the sight of husbands/fathers doing things other than just having jobs.

Like no way the father of my children is actually taking care of them 🤯🤯

lol some women and jus ppl in general can be every exhausting. please stop listening to those male centered or male identified women lol cuz what ur Husband is doing is exactly what he should be doing. We are blessed to have husbands who carry their weight and responsibilities in the relationship. Ur Husband is actually being a PARTNER and so are u. It’s very equally balanced in my humble opinion. The patriachy & misogyny from this society has men doing the bare minimum & then then getting praised for it or as u stated in this post some ppl actually feel bad for them. lol idk why feel bad for a man doing his role well especially roles that he signed up for. He is being a father &Husband & women are blaming u or making u feel guilty for not doing enough? make it make sense.
As woman we go thru so much having these kids & no one feels bad for us. They try minimize what we do; we literally create life & something that can kill us! We give our bodies so trust me u have done enough my dear

Gosh I feel your frustration. I get this from my family too especially my mom.
My husband is the main cook at home and we pretty much share every other responsibility. Except admin usually falls on me because I'm more organised and naturally take this responsibility.

But wow, the praise and pity that he gets as if it's not his responsibility is amazing. 😂 my mom acts like he is doing me the world of a favour by caring for his family.

He is a wonderful partner and father, and I feel very blessed, especially when I compare to some of the dickheads I read about here on peanut. But fuck man

That's actually a normal way to do things in a family where both adults are responsible grown ups. We have the same dynamic here. Honestly women thinking that being a slave for their family is normal are very much conditionned by patriarchy to think this way... Let them be and keep thriving in a functional family style 🤗

Well it depends, is his job physically intensive and are they long hours? If he comes home super exhausted and still has to cook, bath and put kids to bed, then yes I feel bad for him. But if he’s sitting down behind a desk in an AC environment and chatting with coworkers about nonsense all day, then no I wouldn’t feel bad for him. So in my opinion, it would depend on what type of job he does for work.