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Husband refuses to go to couple therapy

I’ve brought it up multiple times over the years because we have trouble communicating sometimes and have been arguing 24/7 and I can’t keep doing that. He said he doesn’t believe in therapy and he’s not gonna go to someone. I’ve found therapist in our insurance and sent him some before and said we can choose one we like together but he still refuses and nothing is getting better. What do I do

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Turns out he either wants to do therapy or wants to be separated

leave that man girl /:

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Tbh if you need to vent you’re welcome to message me. I’m in the same boat

He was very clear that he isn't interested in making your relationship better. He already left the boat. Leave it too girl... You deserve someone who wants to improve things for you

Are you already in individual therapy? Do you think he would be open to individual therapy at all? If he isn’t and he isn’t putting in the work to better himself on his own then it might be time to look at separating and co-parenting. You don’t want to be stuck with someone that isn’t willing to put in effort to do better for themselves and the relationship

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