Friendships

This hasn't happened to me since high school, but im sorry I know the feeling. These women are trying to tell you something, you'd be better off finding truer friends you can relate to and who actually care about you

This has happened to me i would agree with Sarah .They will say they didn't invite you because of the baby being considerate but even after you communicated just the invite alone makes you feel included and you still don't get one they don't want you there it took me forever to learn this .

I literally could’ve wrote this myself. Been honestly one of the hardest parts of motherhood for me personally. Especially when my “friends” were so excited for me and so excited for my baby shower blah blah blah. Then baby comes (now I will note my part here I ended with an emergency C-section and didn’t like go on social media and post baby had arrived (side note I really don’t post ever) I didn’t individually text my friends and say anything but ya know the time comes (due date) and time passes and I never heard from these “friends” again. I’m a bare minimum type friend I know life gets busy and people deal with their own shit and sometimes just don’t talk for awhile. All I ask is the same thing I give. I check in once in awhile and always say happy birthday and happy whatever holidays. A lot of my friends have other friends and family members with kids and I honestly thought they “got it” on how it all can go. Nope never got a check in never a how’s pregnancy or is the baby here.

Yes an it hurts me so bad