Wtffff I dont understand men

Soooo my bf has been pretty adamant that he doesnt like sex while I'm pregnant. Currently about 7.5 months right now & I'm lucky if I get it once a month. He was always giving excuses "I'm just not in the right mind set right now", "I'm stressed, I'm tired", "I don't like putting it in you when baby is so close", "what if your water breaks while I'm going down on you?", it was endless. He would joke about me getting a rose. Wellllll he didnt know I already had something similar, I'm just not really into using it and only was using it before I dated him. He found it a few days ago and guess what?? It seemed like he got upset! While he tried to laugh it off he end up leaving the room. Then makes little remarks about it throughout the rest of the day. "You'd rather do that then do anything with me?" "I havent been doing anything for me" "well it must be better than me since you're not coming to me asking for it". 😑 & lately hes been asking nearly every day to be intimate since the day he found it. Now im just bitter and frustrated he kept turning me down or making excuses of why he didnt initiate these last 4-5 months and dont even want to do anything with him. I don't understand this bs, he's so damn frusterating.

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Sexy talk

We love a little sexy talk but sometimes it can kill the mood. If you and your husband/partner were about to get it on and he calls himself a “wild stallion” is that a turn on or off?

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Please can I really just have a good mom friend

Can I really get a true mom friend that doesn't mind talking or text everyday an I am just fine with long distance mom friends as well

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Intimacy while pregnant

I’m curious how easy/difficult it is for you all to focus on intimacy while pregnant. It’s been harder for me.
I adore my husband, it’s just awkward being kicked in the stomach by something so fragile and cute while I’m feeling frisky. 😂

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Husband refuses to go to couple therapy

I’ve brought it up multiple times over the years because we have trouble communicating sometimes and have been arguing 24/7 and I can’t keep doing that. He said he doesn’t believe in therapy and he’s not gonna go to someone. I’ve found therapist in our insurance and sent him some before and said we can choose one we like together but he still refuses and nothing is getting better. What do I do

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I want to give up so bad

This shits too hard

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Friendships

I’ve had a lot of things change since becoming a mom but I never thought loosing my friends would be one of them. I’m literally sitting here watching my so call friends out and about and they never invite me, sometimes it’s the thought that counts, you just want to be considered. Has this happened to anyone and how did you navigate it?

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