Why do you post up looking for friends, but leave people on Read in your inbox?
I think in your bio, you should specify the type of friends that you're looking for. Maybe race is a factor. Maybe appearance is a factor. I don't get it.
Well, maybe you're just looking for social media friends maybe you're just looking for people to follow you and like your pictures. I really don't get it. Please help me out.
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I've been wondering the same thing and I get ghosts every time

I haven't have luck...
I'm actually looking to see if those who do it would be bold enough to answer

Honestly I haven’t gotten enough dm for this to be me. I would love more interactions

Same! They leave me on read or when it’s time to meet they’ll ghost you. 🤣

I honestly think it does have to do with race, personality in the bio if there is one, how they look, the things you both have in common, age may be a factor too but I think the biggest is the conversation..if it’s dry or short worded..I wouldn’t continue messaging either because they obviously don’t want to talk or the vibe just isn’t there.

yep I think that’s it

When someone says "Hi" to you on the street or tries to pick up a conversation while waiting in a queue, you look at them, and from what you see and hear, you quickly determine whether you want to talk to them. It's natural.
Now, it's better in person, of course. Online, not everyone has the ability to make their online profile speak for their personality, tone, intention, eagerness, etc. And that hinders online conversations sometimes.
The other thing is starting a conversation, and the conversation itself - online or in-person, if you don't vibe or have things in common... that's it. And that's okay.
Of course, ideally, online or in person, that person would say what they think an feel, like "I'm sorry, I don't feel like we have enough in common". Usually, people don't have so much emotional intelligence or care enough to reply at all. So, they simply ignore and avoid. Again - nothing new or unusual about this. And, easier to do online.

Beyond me. Dating apps are better lol
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Can I really get a true mom friend that doesn't mind talking or text everyday an I am just fine with long distance mom friends as well

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I’m curious how easy/difficult it is for you all to focus on intimacy while pregnant. It’s been harder for me.
I adore my husband, it’s just awkward being kicked in the stomach by something so fragile and cute while I’m feeling frisky. 😂

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I’ve brought it up multiple times over the years because we have trouble communicating sometimes and have been arguing 24/7 and I can’t keep doing that. He said he doesn’t believe in therapy and he’s not gonna go to someone. I’ve found therapist in our insurance and sent him some before and said we can choose one we like together but he still refuses and nothing is getting better. What do I do
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This shits too hard
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I’ve had a lot of things change since becoming a mom but I never thought loosing my friends would be one of them. I’m literally sitting here watching my so call friends out and about and they never invite me, sometimes it’s the thought that counts, you just want to be considered. Has this happened to anyone and how did you navigate it?
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