Sex
Completely lost my sex drive since becoming a mum. Last year we had sex once and I got pregnant 🤣.
We have 2 under 2 now.
We last had sex around 6 months ago - which induced labour 😃
I feel awful but I just never have the capacity for it, never crave it. Don't think it helps that I'm struggling with my body image.
My husband tells me constantly how beautiful I am & looks at me the same as he always has.
When we do it, its mindblowing & i think "why dont we do this more." But then I guess, life gets in the way.
I feel bad on my husband as we don't have any sexual contact but I almost feel sick at the thought of it.
It's not a reflection on him because hes fooooinnneeeee 😍 and i love him with my whole heart.
It's me thats the problem. I'm going to the gym & eating well to try lose weight. But what can I do to get it back within myself?
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I thought this for years before I simply realised that no matter how good of a man my partner is - I just don't want to do it with him. I would lie and say it was great - it wasn't all that and now we're separating and I feel a sense of relief. Turns out it wasn't my libido at all, it was his lack of understanding me sexually and maybe my lack of trusting him to understand even if I did communicate.
Maybe not the case for you but maybe it could be... this post sounds like me around 4 years ago.
Best of luck with it all x
I wouldn’t worry about losing weight you’re just putting more stress on yourself which will be lowering your libido. Look for other things to feel sexy like looking for nice nightwear or lingerie or get your hair done. Not going to lie even when I only dye my eye brows I feel like a new woman 😂 the little things can make the world of difference!
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Completely lost my sex drive since becoming a mum. Last year we had sex once and I got pregnant 🤣.
We have 2 under 2 now.
We last had sex around 6 months ago - which induced labour 😃
I feel awful but I just never have the capacity for it, never crave it. Don't think it helps that I'm struggling with my body image.
My husband tells me constantly how beautiful I am & looks at me the same as he always has.
When we do it, its mindblowing & i think "why dont we do this more." But then I guess, life gets in the way.
I feel bad on my husband as we don't have any sexual contact but I almost feel sick at the thought of it.
It's not a reflection on him because hes fooooinnneeeee 😍 and i love him with my whole heart.
It's me thats the problem. I'm going to the gym & eating well to try lose weight. But what can I do to get it back within myself?
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