It's it better to have health insurance or go without in the USA? Trying to decide if I should get insurance next year or keep going without it. I've had insurance before and want another honest opinion.
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I breathe much easier having it

why wouldn’t you want insurance?

Honestly it depends. Kids and older adults yes. In the middle I think it depends on the person. Looking to start a family Yes.
Avoids drs like they give away the plague thats what I have a care credit card for. My partner does not go to the Dr's unless something is broken or needs stitches. Payment plans are still a thing. Small things like eye appointments and things I use care credit for including when I paid out of pocket for 3 tooth extractions for myself. I pay for health insurance when I know I will use it. Pregnancy or problems like blood pressure, heart problems, mental health or even severe health problems insurance is great to have due to lots of drs appointments and meds. Simple checkups once a year and such I pay out of pocket and pay less

It’s so much better to have it and not need to use it much, than need it and not have it.

It can be frustrating trying to sort out things that aren't your fault when insurance messes up, but correcting some of those things has saved us $22,000+ we wouldn't have saved otherwise

Way better to have insurance in the US lol medical costs can get dangerously high at times

A lot of doctors don't accept self pay and are insurance only, so keep that in mind! Unless you find a doctor/pediatrician that is a god send, you're looking at paying thousands for vaccines/check ups. Most specialists also need referrals from a primary care physician before they're willing to see you so unless you have insurance you'd be paying to see the primary just to get a referral. Also unless you get on Medicaid most private insurances only let you join during their "enrollment period" unless you have a qualifying event, so keep that in mind too!

there are tax penalties for not being covered alongside of the scary Idea that if anything were to happen outside of your control that you'd be solely responsible
There are State programs available that could assist you if your income has anything to do with this decision
Never gotten a tax penalty for not having insurance. I spent a year paying off bills for when I had insurance and only when to the doctors 4 times.

It is always safer to have insurance. Without it, medical debt can absolutely cripple you. If you don’t have insurance through an employer, see if you qualify for your states Medicaid plan, or seek out a plan on the marketplace.
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It's it better to have health insurance or go without in the USA? Trying to decide if I should get insurance next year or keep going without it. I've had insurance before and want another honest opinion.
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it feels like this entire pregnancy he’s been pushing every boundary i’ve asked for. when i first found out i was pregnant initially i said no telling anyone until 12weeks. but i was so sick so my parents who live near us would come drop off food regularly so they found out i was pregnant around 6 weeks bc i was hospitalized. i asked him to wait to tell his parents until after first trimester though bc of risk of MC and i don’t really have a relationship with them and so was really anxious. he kept fighting me about that but ended up not telling them.
then a few months ago he insisted they be present for the birth even though i asked for a few weeks to recover. that was another huge fight because he said they’re also grandparents they should be here when the baby’s born. i tried explaining there are very few people i want around me when im bleeding and leaking everywhere but he kept saying it’s not fair they’re grandparents too even when i tried to explain its not about the baby it’s about ME.
Ive tried compromising ive tried saying ok they can come but they need to stay in a hotel but its apparently disrespectful to ask his mom to stay elsewhere and he keeps going back to “fair”. Is it fair i had severe hospitalization nausea for 16 weeks? Is it fair i cant sleep bc i get up to pee 6x a night? I’m the one growing the child I have to recover while learning to breastfeed (something HE wants, id happily do formula) and learning to keep a tiny human alive.
I’m 1 month from delivering and we keep having these fights. I said ok let me see how i’m feeling post birth then we can decide when his parents come (how long they need to wait) but even that’s not okay. It’s like if i don’t decide right now we won’t see them for 4-5 months bc they don’t want to travel in the cold and I feel like that decision is being blamed on me.
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I’m currently 18+4 weeks pregnant and my partner and I have only had sex 3 times since finding out I’m pregnant.
Before we started trying for the baby, we had such a good sex life. However since being pregnant, my mind and body wants two different things. I crave sex and I’m having dreams and all sorts but when it comes to it.. I’m just so dry.. nothing turns me on, even the things that always work. I just wondered if this is normal? He thinks I’m not wanting it but I generally do, my body is just saying something different.
Any advice is welcome!
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