Struggling to have sex..

Yeah this is normal for some people maybe try somthing new

I experienced this as well during pregnancy, though I also had struggles before then. What helped me most was communicating with my husband what was going on so we could figure out a solution together and from there using lube regularly was the next natural step because he understood it wasn’t due to lack of attraction. I highly recommend the Good Clean Love water based lubricant, it felt great! Also extra foreplay with the lube to make it feel like a sensual ritual rather than a source of shame. Logically I knew it wasn’t my fault, but I did have to overcome some insecurities about it. Trying new positions and lingerie helped too. While our first time having sex postpartum was rough, in an unexpected & welcome turn of events, every time after that I’ve been able to get wet naturally no lube needed anymore. My mind body connection is much more in sync. I hope the same will happen for you soon too, but even if it takes some time it’ll be alright 🩷

It’s normal most woman go through it during pregnancy , with my first I wanted it all the time and my second I was like whatever about it but now I’m 19weeks and I don’t wanna do it at all and if we do I’m dry in 5 minuets and I explain how it’s just uncomfortable in some situations and I don’t wanna be on top (I feel like a whale or like I’m squishing the baby). It definitely helps to talk about it because it’s not your fault or his ! Your hormones are changing and it’s easier to dream/think about it then actually do it