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Cheated on while pregnant

Yesterday, I found out my boyfriend was not only mine, but someone else’s. I’m pregnant and so is she. Has anyone else been through this? I literally feel like I’m dying & am scared of the amount of stress all this crying is causing. How do I possible get through this being 5 months ? 🙃

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More power to you 💕

Could you try to be friends with her and get through it together?

I'm sorry you're going thru this 🙏🏽 i was cheated on while pregnant, and had terrible mental health thru it all, i was too scared to end it and have a baby alone, but in hindsight, trying to make it work, worsened my mental health. I would recommend therapy, and to prioritize your health and your babies health (a healthy mama is best for a healthy baby). I was honestly very happy and surprised that my baby was born healthy after all the crying, panicking and screaming i did in my pregnancy. You are worthy of so much more than he can give you 🙏🏽🧚🏽‍♀️

Band together - double team him by getting to know your child's sibling mama and then do the same in court

Focus on baby, loving the innocent one even babies dad is wrongdoer baby innocent💞 hope you can see it even its hard. I would advice to plan life without him getting money savings and leaving as fast. Being friends or trying to be with her can backfire, i wouldnt recommend. Maybe both miss part of him that thought he was theirs only.

Pls do something drastic to this man so he can get the message. We are not making these men lonely enough that’s why they keep doing what they’re doing.

If you pay all the bills, kick him out. If he pays all the bills, leave and never talk to him again. Put his ass on child support and better ur life for ur self and ur child. If u think u have the heart for it, leave the kid with him and go live ur best life ( cuz im betting he’s planning on doing the same thing). Do something to where the quality of ur life improves and his deteriorates. That’s the only way the feel half of the pain they caused u.

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