Trust me ik he is cheating mamas need to vent

All I know is.. what’s done in the dark will always come to light. Ask God to show you and give you signs if that’s really what that was.

Me personallyyy I would lose my cool. Not saying that’s what you should do BUT that’s a big obvious clue that he had sex with someone recently. And getting mad would make him look more suspicious. Idk I could be wrong but I would go FBI mode in his phone in case it’s still happening.

Lady, there’s an empty condom wrapped in the car and you know for dam sure it isn’t yours. Then it must be his and he knows it. Don’t let him flip this on you, tell him it’s pointless to even try at this stage.

Yeah i think you're being gaslight.

Compare his reactions to other genuine issues you've had and see if they match up. How does he react when you accuse him of something like not turning off the cooker does he get mad or does it try and reason with you. ( just an example) but now something trust related.

Another thing is just have a sit down conversation. Walk through your feelings and see how it goes if he shuts you down without validating how you feel when you found a condom then...

Even if you don't get anything it will eventually come to light what he has done.

Just strap up so you don't catch something. Sorry girl

An empty condom wrapper would only be in your car if one of you had sex in the car. Or by some miracle the car door was left open and on an extremely windy day it blew trash into your car including this wrapper.

Now logically let’s look at this. You’ve said you didn’t have sex, so that’s you ruled out. The wind theory is probably a 1 in a million chance so let’s rule that out. Which leaves your partner. You have your answer right there staring you in the face.

Also, there’s no way a man would find an empty condom wrapper in his car which he knew wasn’t his, and wouldn’t confront you immediately. How convenient he only remembered to ask you about it when you brought it up 🤦🏽‍♀️

I know you said you don’t want people telling you he cheated, but girl it’s obvious. If you want to keep your head buried in the sand, that’s on you. All I know is he would be an EX-fiancé for sure.

Don’t allow yourself to be gaslit and fooled by lies.

What if he didn’t have sex and only masturbated??? Some guys wear condoms when doing it so it’s an easy clean up. I don’t know. Just thinking outside the box.
Has someone borrowed the car??
If not then maybe just go through his phone or if you trust him and he has nothing to hide then maybe it’s an old one for another time??
Again out of the box thinker.
Honestly do what you feel is right. You will get your answer eventually.