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No sex during pregnancy

I’m 12 weeks pregnant and horny as hell 😭 My baby’s father and I broke up, but I don’t want to sleep with anyone else while I’m pregnant. It just doesn’t feel right for me, especially when I’m not in a relationship with them.

Part of me wants to reach out to my baby’s father just for sex, but I’m worried that would pull me back into something emotionally messy. I also heard that going without sex during pregnancy could make you more likely to tear during labor. Is that even true?

Has anyone else been in this position? What did you do?

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Don’t do it lol

Get a vibrator and/or sex machine 🤷🏻‍♀️

Dildo will do if that’s true about the tearing!

Get a lemon baby don’t do it 😅

Im in the same position as you sweetheart.
Dildos and vibratora is helping
Plus, ive been exercising and just distracting the mind from sex.
And you not having sex doesnt make you tear, do yoga and pilates to help get your vagina ready for baby to come out. And make sure you moisturising everywhere to avoid stretch marks. You dont need ur ex that plays with your emotions and makes you feel how you felt with him. Mine was horrible, made me feel shit and useless. Made me feel like a bad person. Even though im a nurse and have a caring attitude towards life.
You've got this.
Some women read romantic books. Or just walk.
Exercise is the best.
Good luck.
Im here if you want to message me

Girl I’m married and not getting any so I know the feeling🤦🏽‍♀️. But I wouldn’t do it if you don’t want to be in that space with him. I’ve been there too🥴

lol men are not worth it ! I’ve participated in enough sexual acts to get myself pregnant my work is finished.

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