Is this worth leaving him over ?

if it’s so bad that you came here to ask instead of feeling like you can communicate when you don’t get the emotional security you want then you need to seek professional help or leave this man and be very clear about why. there are too many things that could be going on behind the curtains for him to be reacting to your emotions and accountability this way and coming online and asking for strangers opinions is not going to give you any real answers.

Accidentally voted yes 100% but I think there has to be some compromise on both ends! He has to be willing to at least discuss his feelings and emotions, and be willing to discuss them with you, and also you be honest with how you’re feeling and expectations you have rather than wait for him to read your mind. If you guys can be honest with each other about where your head is at and what you need from the relationship it’ll be a step in the right direction. A lot of hard conversations will probably have to be had but that’s important if you want to continue the relationship

Ever heard the saying “nobody is perfect” (others might proffer leaving him)? Is it something you think you can’t live with? I would try not to dwell on it, communicate what you want but don’t push it, give him time and hope he does better, else take him as he is! Cause no one really is perfect.
It might be how he was raised, doesn’t make him a bad person.

I think you guys should try marriage counseling and if that doesn’t work, just ask yourself: is this something I can live with my whole life? Bc even tho he meets other needs, emotional security is so so important and it’s a basic human need. What are you willing to give up?

I feel like that is the same with me. It does feel like something is lacking and you want that to just get fixed. But leaving isn’t going to make you happy. Try to work on it with him. I do like marriage counseling could help.