Am I being petty

Girl I feel you 🙃 my partner is exactly the same , I have to constantly ask for things to be done . Worse of all he doesn’t wake up during the night to help me with feeds . I feel like I’m going delusional sometimes tbh . Same he works a lot more now as I’m only at work partime . But honestly feel like a single parent sometimes . He does try but wish he would step up abit more . You not alone !!!

Same here, I went away with the kids for 10 days came back to a ton of washing machines to do and the clothes that I washed and hanged to dry before we left were still on the air dryer. I do everything around the house and on top of that I have to tell him to do his part of the job (e.g. remind him to pay the bills!).
It is getting so exhausting, he does not understand the concept of mental load and expect me to accept the situation because he works hard and I am maternity leave.

Honestly feel you because I've told my partner I feel like a single parent my other two kids I raised by myself this time I thought with a partner it would be different my baby's three months old she's mainly breastfed but will take a bottle and has taken formula if my milks being used and she's still hungry but in 3 months he's done 2 "half feeds" changed a handful of nappies never done a night feed and hardly holds her he's contracted 37 hours but sometimes picks up overtime I'm 0 hours contracted and he doesn't help me much with the baby never put dirty clothes back in the washing basket which is mere feet from were he takes his clothes off. Leaves toothpaste on the windowsill when the cup for it is directly under it on the sick leaves his yogurt pots and plates in the livingroom even if he's going through to the kitchen hardly washes the dishes and if he does it's not the job lot it's either half or just the bits he's used I honestly feel so drained and fed up