Mixed feelings about partner

So ladies im really struggling lately with my relationship with my bf. Theres alot of baggage and trauma, (emotionally and mental).. i love him i do but i find myself more annoyed by him than happy. Idk i just really need to vent about alot of things.

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Bath

Has anyone skipped giving their little one a bath because its gotten too late? Even if they got bit dirty after tea? My little one has a bath tonight usually but cos shes had tea late an her bedtime is soon it just seems right to leave it. I feel bad

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Waking baby for feeds (EBF)

Hello, my baby is 4 weeks old and EBF.

I woke up last night and realised baby was still asleep after 4 hours. Should I be waking him to feed/nappy change, or do I count my blessings and wait for him to wake me up when he’s ready?

He’s way past his birth weight now, so not concerned about that, but obviously he still has a tiny tummy and I was concerned he was likely sleeping in a soiled nappy.

I very much doubt this will be a regular occurrence but would like to know what to do for next time. Last night we chose to wake him up 🤔

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Moving off formula at 12 months

Can anyone offer advice of how to move from formula to cows milk at 12 months please?
Do you have to wean them over to the cows milk? If so, when, as the guidance is only formula until 12 months and cows milk only in food until that point.
Or do you just give cows milk one day and never give formula again?
Finding it a bit of a mine field! What if she won’t drink the cows milk!

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Health visitor

Does anyone else hate seeing the health visitor? Mine is coming tomorrow they literally called today saying they didnt realise my son was 10 days old so will come tomorrow. Ive seen the lady thats coming tomorrow before and shes just so judgy im not looking forwards to it one bit especially as my daughter will be clung to me which will make it harder. How long do they stay for does anyone know?

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Took baby out

Took my baby out in a sling today and we went for a walk to the shop. He slept through wind, noisy cars, horns beeping and a busy shop but at home if my knee clicks or something he wakes immediately?! 🤣

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Naps not making sense?

Am I being really silly? There was a post a few days ago where people were saying their 5 month olds nap for 30-45 mins but are having 3-4 naps a day.
So are you following wake windows? What time are your LO’s waking up? What time do they go to bed? I imagine if that’s the case, they either wake up late or go to bed early?

I stress about my LO having long naps because that way he’ll have 3 naps a day, and we’ll be able to reach his bedtime of 7:30pm with 3 naps.

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