I’m 17 weeks pregnant and since finding out my partner and I have only done the deed twice. I suffered with HG up to about 15 weeks so that definitely hasn’t helped.
I’m feeling better in myself now but still don’t really have any desire to have sex.
I love my partner probably more now than ever so it’s not that.. does the sex drive ever really come back?
The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.
Learn more about our guidelines.
I also have HG and mine has been "under" control for like 3 weeks ish now and I feel is slowly coming back? But bit there yet lol

Honestly I can't say it does or doesn't, I think everyone is different but im 28 weeks and I have no sex drive at all and havent touched my husband since i was 12 weeks. X

Honestly I can't say it does or doesn't, I think everyone is different but im 28 weeks and I have no sex drive at all and havent touched my husband since i was 12 weeks. X

For me no, I never have any sex drive when pregnant.
Who’s up right now xx

8
11
I’m 17 weeks pregnant and since finding out my partner and I have only done the deed twice. I suffered with HG up to about 15 weeks so that definitely hasn’t helped.
I’m feeling better in myself now but still don’t really have any desire to have sex.
I love my partner probably more now than ever so it’s not that.. does the sex drive ever really come back?
4
I need girlies who are interested in yapping and not ghosting 😭

7
My 3mo was hospitalized the past couple days due to RSV. This has been one of the most traumatic experiences I’ve ever had. Last Wednesday my baby started having a dry cough, it wasn’t intense but I was monitoring him. The following day he was sneezing and cough with mild congestion. Friday was a bit worse so I took him to his pediatrician and they said he had a cold but was ok. I was a bit in doubt but continued to monitor him. Sunday was extremely bad, I took him to urgent care and they had to get him transported to the ER. Watching my baby get loaded into the ambulance was a nightmare. I cried the entire way to the hospital. They confirmed he had RSV and was going to be admitted. Watching my baby in such a weak state and get treated, had me feeling horrible. I was praying to take the pain away from him.. I was reminded that my maternity leave ends in 2 weeks but I can’t even imagine leaving my baby now, especially after what he’s gone through. I want to quit my job and be there for him. Everyone’s saying I’m over exaggerating but am I really? Could someone please tell me what they’d do in this case?
5
How come I join a group chat and there a lot of girls and I try to talk or even make a conversation with those girls and never once someone talk to me or even acknowledge me. I just wanted friends or someone to talk to or vent about during the days but moms make it hard to make friends . Either they judge me or they dislike me .

9
sooo I slept with one guy & then my ex (from 4ish years ago) bang on a week later, and I’m now 38w with one of theirs baby😅I originally thought it was the first guy cause the timing just made a bit more sense but now i just really dk cause I could’ve ovulated late or something like who knows. I never tracked my ovulation or period or nothing. anywayyy, the first guy I haven’t spoken too since I told him…like not even a word. my ex however has been so good about all of this and he only found out about 3ish months ago that im pregnant. he said he’d do a dna test & we’ll figure it out from there but I haven’t seen him since I slept with him and the only time I’ve seen him within the past 4 years is when I slept with him😅
How do I go about the DNA test??? do I invite him over to do it? do I quickly go visit him to do it? do we meet up somewhere and him do it quick? like all he has to do is swab his cheek but idk how to arrange it so it’s not awkward and I don’t really want him meeting the baby till we know if it’s his or not cause I feel like that’d just make him upset if he meets him & then it’s not his yk? what would you do, how would you go about it?
3