First birthday invite at nursery

If it’s a time when it’s my sons nap time then he’s just stayed home with dad, but my partner is of the opinion my son would find it fun too (if it’s a soft play or something) so I should take him 🫠 so I usually just message saying we’d love to come, is it okay if I bring my son too? I can pay extra for him and he won’t need any food or anything. They’ve always said yes luckily. If they said no and I was in a position where my partner couldn’t watch my son then I’d probably reply saying unfortunately we won’t be able to come, but I’d still get the child a card and leave it at nursery for their parents to collect

All parties ive been other mums always bring there little ones

We have one on Sunday and im bring the youngest

I would always text and ask first, don’t just assume it is ok.

I’ve been to many kids parties where a parent has turned up with 2-3+ kids in tow, and just expected them to be catered for.

Sadly it meant that the original child who was invited, didn’t get invited to other parties again (word spread amongst other mums about the pisstaking parent).

Where is it? I’d just send a message and ask if you don’t have childcare.

I would ask or assume other baby isn’t invited just incase the mum has paid per head for the children to be catered for etc x

Thanks everyone!

So Mum wouldn’t have a clue that she has a little brother - the times I drop and pick her up isn’t a time when other mums are there. Plus this girl is turning 4, and my daughter is only 2.5 so I’m assuming this girl does a whole day there.

My husband could look after little one, but he would like to attend and see her around other children and her friends as he can never do drop off or pick up at nursery due to work commitments.

Obviously I don’t want to take the piss and will ask her first before rocking up. Luckily we aren’t having any other kids so defo won’t be that mum ditching 4 kids at a party lol.