Ipswich, Is he cheating?
Hi,
I don't know if I am over worried or not. Here the fact:
My husband works near Ipswich since August, and I am in London with our children .
We have been using condoms since July as I gave birth. 5 condoms disappeared but I thought he brought them for a trip we did (we did not use them), but I never saw them again. Then 6 weeks later another condom disappeared (yes I am a psycho, I am counting our condoms 🫣). It is weird, but I was okay, it can still be explained!
This weekend he brought his bed sheets back for wash. I smelt a perfume that I don't know, it seems for me a woman perfume but I don't have a good nose. He has 4 pillow cases, it is really strong on one and it is not the one he using (his pillow case always have blood stains on them). I can smell it on the bed sheets as well but it is stronger on the pillow case.
What do you think? How can I discover if he really is cheating or not? He told me that he is not cheating on me, but I know that he can use language at his advantage at times (like he is not cheating right now but might have had).
I don't want to accuse him without strong proof.
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The condoms could have been a posh wank. I’d just ask him. Sorry you’re in this dilemma x
My friend was in a similar situation and went in from a different angle. She said to him she knew everything & shes spoken to the woman and could tell from his facial expressions that he was caught out. She completely bullshitted a story that she'd confirmed with the hotel that a woman was in and out his room & said she had proof and he broke down crying saying he's sorry etc and admitted everything 😅
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I don't know if I am over worried or not. Here the fact:
My husband works near Ipswich since August, and I am in London with our children .
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