am i over reacting or ?

i told his ass fine i'll go get in the gym and once im in the gym more than anything i dont want to hear anything ! bc his other bm didn't work a mfn thing and granted it's my choice but im only 10 wks ? like im about to pop or some ?!

The first trimester is incredibly exhausting. He really need to do some research on the toll pregnancy can take on the body and give some grace. You deserve restful days!

Lazy is such a negative word! And when you are prego and do so much I think it’s wise to do what you feel your ready to do … not for him but for you! If you want to go to the gym great but if you doing it cus he said you lazy maybe that’s something to reconsider!

My first trimester I was so tired I could barely stay up after I got home from work! My water broke at work! It’s exhausting and your body is using soooooooo much energy creating your little one!

I am a data person….so allow me to throw some cold, hard facts that my OWN man told me.

A study from Duke University (link below), measured human energy limits (endurance) and found that high performance athletes hit a ceiling of 2.5x their basal metabolic rate during long time exertion (think, multi-day marathons).

In contrast, while athletes peak at this 2.5x, pregnancy causes a woman’s metabolic rate to be at a SUSTAINED 2.2x basal metabolic rate for the entirety of the pregnancy (roughly 270 days).

https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/sciadv.aaw0341?referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F

I thought I would be able to work out. Man how wrong I was. My body literally forced me to be bedridden so much that I learned to crochet out of boredom!!! Better than doom scrolling

Don’t be harsh on yourself. You will feel better imo past first trimester. Just gotta get through the trenches

The first trimester is ROUGH. Literally all I could do was work (and I asked for short shifts when my nausea was at its worst), try to eat, and sleep. I’ve never had fatigue like that. I couldn’t even do calm hobbies because I didn’t have the energy for it. Listen to your body. You are doing SO MUCH. And if you’re lucky, you’ll get some energy back in the second trimester

girl if he’s treating you like that 10 weeks pp then he does not have your best interest at heart!!

Sorry but nobody should tell a pregnant woman what to do.

I would say take this as your excuse to drive away and go somewhere for a solo date-even if it’s a nap in your car

The first trimester causes an insane amount of physical exhaustion. He needs to close his mouth and open a book.

& after us arguing all morning till like 1230 he said "it was a suggestion & i didn't give him a chance to say we could take walks together, that i just got offended automatically".... i mean duh