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I have a 17 month old and haven’t felt so alone before. When he was younger and I was on maternity leave we attended 2 groups a week, had a handful of friends that we saw every so often and it really broke up the days. Said friends have not bothered with us since the start of the year unless I make contact. When we’ve made plans they’ve cancelled last minute. My son has finished the groups we were doing and we can’t yet get to baby/toddler groups as he still wants a nap in the morning. I work 3 days a week and the 2 days I have off with him I’m always so stuck for what to do and sometimes just wish there was someone or somewhere we could go and be around other mums and kids. I have no family nearby either. Due my 2nd early next year and maternity leave will be so different and much busier with 2 but I’m still worried about feeling lonelier than I do currently. It’s like there is so much to do for babies but as soon as they turn 1 the groups fizzle away and so do the friendships. He goes to nursery while I work so I’m glad he gets time with other babies/adults and all the activities they get up to, just be nice for us to have more on our days together

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I'm sure your local libary does baby groups? Mine does, they are free too. They also sing songs and play with musical instruments. You can also get him a libary card and get books out for him. It gets you out the house and gives you both something different to do

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I have a 17 month old and haven’t felt so alone before. When he was younger and I was on maternity leave we attended 2 groups a week, had a handful of friends that we saw every so often and it really broke up the days. Said friends have not bothered with us since the start of the year unless I make contact. When we’ve made plans they’ve cancelled last minute. My son has finished the groups we were doing and we can’t yet get to baby/toddler groups as he still wants a nap in the morning. I work 3 days a week and the 2 days I have off with him I’m always so stuck for what to do and sometimes just wish there was someone or somewhere we could go and be around other mums and kids. I have no family nearby either. Due my 2nd early next year and maternity leave will be so different and much busier with 2 but I’m still worried about feeling lonelier than I do currently. It’s like there is so much to do for babies but as soon as they turn 1 the groups fizzle away and so do the friendships. He goes to nursery while I work so I’m glad he gets time with other babies/adults and all the activities they get up to, just be nice for us to have more on our days together

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