Moms who actually want to hang out??

Maybe it’s just me but everyone’s profiles are like “ looking for mom friends “ , i then match with people I think I would vibe with just for us to have conversations and it’s either one word replies or one sentence come from the other person or no questions/ follow ups nothing. The conversation is like talking to NPCs.

I try to have actual conversations based on their profile so it shows I have interest and we can get to the point of being able to hang out in person and sometimes I get completely ghosted and it’s just like are people actually on here looking for Mom friends or are they just looking for a penpals??

I would actually go and hang out whether it’s for dinner, Lunch, walks in the parks, Anything as I truly do believe in community. But I don’t know maybe it’s just me lol I’m just excited about this new journey in my life and want to share that with like minded women.

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in our community

Mother and baby groups

Everyone keeps telling me to join mother and baby groups is it normal to not want too as I just feel like I won’t fit in and I am just uncomfortable and scared of the idea of it as well

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Redundancy during maternity leave

Heyyy, I’m wondering if anyone can help. I’ve just been made redundant during maternity leave (fantastic lol) and it’s my whole team so from what I understand it’s not illegal. I was wondering if anyone has any solicitor recommendations? I’ve been told I need to consult one before agreeing to a settlement x

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Sex during pregnancy

At what point do people stop having sex or it becomes too uncomfortable?

I’m 21w and over the last 6 weeks we have maybe only had sex once or time and it’s just to uncomfortable.

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Returning to work

I was due to return back to work on 30th November but today I received a phone call asking if I would be happy to go back on the 9th November instead.
I dont know if I am ready or not yet even though its a few weeks early. It is a nursery setting so my LO will be coming to work with me.
How do you know when your ready?
Any advice on what to do in this situation will be great as I currently feel lost and dont really have much to say about it all because I just dont know

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Sick of surface level friendships..

I am selective of my friends, because I don’t do surface level. Girlll we can call and b**** to each other. And then get side tracked with kids and doing stuff and still be doing our thing on the phone idc lol. You gotta call at 2a.m. Because something happened? I’m gonna answer the dang phone. Call each other out on our bs. But lift each other up. No censoring! No pressure to put on a mask and pretend to be perfect. Be weird. Be goofy. Be serious. Be angry. Idc I’ll accept it. I got adhd and I’m a weirdo too sometimes. Fun but socially awful lol.

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