am i going mad
OMG i am starting to really get annoyed with my husband. We have a 15 yr old and 12 year old (both adhd and asd) and a 13week old tomorrow. I was in a&e monday evening for 11 hrs got told to rest and not lift anything heavy. Hubby helped for a day and then everything went back to normal. Today he went to football match with the oldest child and got back at 7:30. the baby is struggling with reflux but can’t go on medication as he is also having trouble pooing and on medication for that too. hubby had tea and went on i pad. baby had a bottle, threw up all over pjs so changed him while hubby was still sitting down on ipad. then baby decided to have a very watery poo which went everywhere, hubby was still on ipad didnt offer to help. i sorted him out took nappy outside and when i came back in baby had been sick again and hubby still sitting down on ipad did nothing. i counted to 10 and picked baby up and then he responded to me how do u need help!!!! honestly getting annoyed now. sorry for the rant but this made me feel better
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You need to speak to your husband and tell him what you need. If you don't nothing will change. Sorry that he isn't currently meeting your needs. They are his children too and he needs to step up and show up for you otherwise the resentment will build 🤗
Some men are absolutely oblivious but they don’t mean it. Please have a conversation with him. If you don’t communicate nothing will work nor change unfortunately. Be firm and tell him exactly how you’re feeling don’t wait for him to realise.
spoke to him countless times over last few weeks. it changes for all of 24hrs
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What’s something (or multiple things) your mother in law has said to you that have made you cringe or left you shook?
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Please please tell me what your doing with your 9 month olds throughout the day. My partner works 12hour shifts and it’s just so draining being in the house with a fussy 9 month olds who I have to try keep a nap routine for.
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am i going mad
OMG i am starting to really get annoyed with my husband. We have a 15 yr old and 12 year old (both adhd and asd) and a 13week old tomorrow. I was in a&e monday evening for 11 hrs got told to rest and not lift anything heavy. Hubby helped for a day and then everything went back to normal. Today he went to football match with the oldest child and got back at 7:30. the baby is struggling with reflux but can’t go on medication as he is also having trouble pooing and on medication for that too. hubby had tea and went on i pad. baby had a bottle, threw up all over pjs so changed him while hubby was still sitting down on ipad. then baby decided to have a very watery poo which went everywhere, hubby was still on ipad didnt offer to help. i sorted him out took nappy outside and when i came back in baby had been sick again and hubby still sitting down on ipad did nothing. i counted to 10 and picked baby up and then he responded to me how do u need help!!!! honestly getting annoyed now. sorry for the rant but this made me feel better
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