First overnight with dad

My babygirl is 11 weeks. Her dad and I are together but live separately (both with family) till we can get our own place. She’s been with me every night since birth. She combo feeds (breastfeeding and formula). We typically go to her dads overnight on the weekends and at my sisters place during the week. Today I broke down crying because she wouldn’t stop scream crying. Her dad offered to take her overnight. I hesitated but told him yes. I’m terrified. He’s a great dad. I’m not scared about her getting mistreated or neglected. I’m scared she’s going to think I left her. I’m scared she’s gonna be looking for me and I’m not there. Idk what to do. He’s so excited to have her but I feel like I’m dying and she hasn’t even been picked up yet

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Aww it will be ok moms needs breaks as well but you can video call her when you are missing her positive vibes for you

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i agree! you can always call her🥰 shes not thinking about that, she just knows she’s with her daddy, mamas deserve a break, go take a bath, go watch a tv show, order food, and go to bed early(if he’s keeping her overnight), reset your brain, yes it’s hard, but always keep in mind that your kiddos can feel when their primary parent is feeling off, she’s okay☺️, you’re okay☺️ take some time mama!

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