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I recently left my spouse due to dv and constant disrespect. I could feel him sucking the life out of me. I am 17 weeks pregnant with two other children. I have been a stay at home mom and he drained our bank account. Has anyone else ever gone through this? I wouldnât wish this hell on anyone đ
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I'm so sorry you are going through this
Sorry to hear that
Yes if you need a friend you can always send me a message if you like
I am 3 years free from a dv relationship with my daughter's father. And crazy enough, I'm also from kokomo. I would be more than happy to share resources and do anything I can to help you and your kids. Message međ€
This exact thing happened to me, and literally is currently happening to me again. Last time I will ever put my faith in a man. Currently 24 weeks pregnant, my spouse emptied the account, kicked my 4 year old and I out, and I am now with my mom. Feel free to message me, I would genuinely love to chat â€ïžâ€ïž
In somewhat of the same situation accept its mental abuse rather than physical & I havent left yet. Currently stuck in a lease with another year and a half to go đ«. I have two older children as well, and am 36 weeks. Sooo going on maternity leave soon and he knows I cant afford to leave atm even if I wanted to break the lease. Im sorry you're in this situation but am glad you got yourself and your kids out and away!
Im currently in a similar situation. I haven't left yet and im a yr postpartum. I've had terrible PPD but honestly I think its from how I've been getting treated.
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Needing support or friendshipsđ©·
I recently left my spouse due to dv and constant disrespect. I could feel him sucking the life out of me. I am 17 weeks pregnant with two other children. I have been a stay at home mom and he drained our bank account. Has anyone else ever gone through this? I wouldnât wish this hell on anyone đ
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