I didn’t sleep well last night because my daughter is teething and she was up all night. This morning after everyone was up I asked my husband to take the kids so I can get some sleep. My son is potty training he needed to pee he ran to the toilet but didn’t reach in time so he peed on the bathroom floor (this was about an hour after I asked my husband to watch them). I heard my son go to his dad who was watching tv and said daddy I peed on the floor my husband responded “go to your mom tell her to wash and change you”. My son did exactly that I got up and bath him and changed him after that I got ready and went to do grocery thinking that my husband cleaned the pee on the bathroom floor down stairs(we have two bathrooms). When I came back from doing grocery I went into the bathroom and saw the floor was covered with pee. I went to him who was still seating watching tv and asked him why didn’t you clean the pee off the floor he responded ”oh you didn’t do that”
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Learn more about our guidelines.Now I have to mop the whole house because that’s the bathroom on the main floor my son for sure walked through the pee and walked all over the house.

It sounds like you need more help I’m sorry 😞

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I would say have a serious talk with him, but something tells me he’ll be looking behind you to continue to watch TV (sorry, a little dig. But you deserve better than this sweetheart)

Your husband sounds like a lazy and entitled jerk. You deserve better. If you can't whip his ass into shape and get him contributing, he doesn't deserve you. I'm not saying it's easy to fix or leave but he's dead weight now from the sound of it.

So sorry you are going through this.X

I’m sorry, it seems like most men think, they don’t do anything around the house, this is sad. 😔
I see this experiences a lot 😔💔

You need to whoop that man
Husband cheated what should I do ?
I caught him ,I got in contact with the girl and asked some questions that was important for me to know yes they had sex she was his GF since may of this year ,they did go out on a date mind you I had our first baby in July I find this information out at the end of September.He is telling not to tell no one because he is worry about his image ,but like. I don’t care because I am going through postpartum by self and depression has kicked in The excuse he gave has angered me and it lives rent free in my head but my daughter is the reason I get up because she deserves the best from her mom I cry in the shower or when she is sleep .I try to be strong because I only breast feed and all of this tanks my milk supply.
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My partner sees his son from his previous marriage the majority of the time. He takes him on days out. Only two weekend days are for our shared son and I. He says it's because he doesn't see his older son during the work week. But during the work week, our shared son is not at home and we just do the bed time routine. He has to commute back and forth to pick up his first son and often is tired for us but he does force himself to do things with us even if it tires him.
To be fair He does invite us to go with them but his son often snatches toys from kids, recently he kicked my toddler who went flying backwards. I don't think he is a good influence on our son but his dad doesn't want to discipline him because he feels guilty and his mother says that saying no to their son is bad. I am limiting time with them now which now puts the childcare of my son with me for the majority of the weekend. Do you think two days is sufficient for our shared son?
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Do you hit/spank your kids if they don’t listen or do something wrong? According to the Bible you are supposed to. I grew up in a home that did believe in whoopings and never thought I would hit my kids. I hear some people don’t but what do you do when your kids don’t listen? My boys don’t listen AT ALL! I’m a sahm.
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So my mother in law is a very difficult person, very self centred and selfish, everything is always a performance or a show.
I am carrying my first baby, but her second grandchild. I just feel like she is crossing boundaries already.
She is buying or accepting baby things off vinted and friends without asking us first. She has sent me a long list of things her friend has given her, however most of which I already have, and some I don't want or haven't looked into yet.
I just feel like why couldn't she have just asked before accepting. I always get made to feel like i cannot say no to her, she is very pressuring.
I feel like she is just trying to completely take over and get overly involved. She has 3 children of her own, and her daughter has a child which she is very very involved in.
I feel like buying for baby is a personal thing and something my husband and I wanted to enjoy together. Or I would be happy for her to buy things but just to ask first, but she doesnt listen.
I just feel so upset 😡
Advice on how to handle her? Im also worried about when baby comes how she will be...
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I need advice from married women, especially those living in the UK. I am pregnant, and my husband keeps making excuses whenever I ask him for money to buy baby essentials. I am worried because I still need to prepare for my baby’s arrival. Has anyone experienced this situation? How did you handle it? Please share your honest advice without judging me.
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I didn’t sleep well last night because my daughter is teething and she was up all night. This morning after everyone was up I asked my husband to take the kids so I can get some sleep. My son is potty training he needed to pee he ran to the toilet but didn’t reach in time so he peed on the bathroom floor (this was about an hour after I asked my husband to watch them). I heard my son go to his dad who was watching tv and said daddy I peed on the floor my husband responded “go to your mom tell her to wash and change you”. My son did exactly that I got up and bath him and changed him after that I got ready and went to do grocery thinking that my husband cleaned the pee on the bathroom floor down stairs(we have two bathrooms). When I came back from doing grocery I went into the bathroom and saw the floor was covered with pee. I went to him who was still seating watching tv and asked him why didn’t you clean the pee off the floor he responded ”oh you didn’t do that”
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