Cheating

So, my husband has been cheating on me for the past four years, and I recently started cheating on him too. I met this amazing guy who wants me all to himself. He knows I’m married, and he’s made it clear that he doesn’t want me having sex with anyone else. However, I had sex with someone else today, and I kind of feel guilty about it. Is it normal to feel guilty toward my side piece rather than my husband?

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So you just don’t believe in divorce, or..?

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That’s a messed up situation 🤦🏼‍♀️

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I’m not trying to sound too judgmental or anything but is there a reason that you won’t divorce him?

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So you’re having sex with 3 people?

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It’s normal. Please use protection and practice safe sex

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You owe the other guy nothing unless you see a future with him

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Girl, you had your fun. Cool, step out one more time if that's what you want to do, even after your hubby cheated. Now get y'all some therapy if y'all want to stay together for the kids, and bring yourselves back to each other; if not, completely leave the man and figure out what you want to do next, baby girl. No judgment, all love.

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I’m gonna be honest the amount of times I see women leaving their toxic relationships (or not fully left yet) and jump to the next guy thinking it’s so much better only to find out that you are being love bombed and back in the same toxic dynamics you left… this sounds like one of these times. Cuz it’s a red flag that this man is asking for exclusivity from a married woman.

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Sheesh no judgement but damn women can actually be like men 😂😂

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So, my husband has been cheating on me for the past four years, and I recently started cheating on him too. I met this amazing guy who wants me all to himself. He knows I’m married, and he’s made it clear that he doesn’t want me having sex with anyone else. However, I had sex with someone else today, and I kind of feel guilty about it. Is it normal to feel guilty toward my side piece rather than my husband?

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