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So i recently had a fling with this guy it was nothing serious because he didn’t want anything serious I respected it obviously we had relations and I asked him about the risk of getting pregnant he said he was young I also agreed yet everytime I would ask for money for a plan b he would refuse and just say he was low on funds or make an excuse I knew I didn’t want a baby so I brought it we only did it three times total because I was growing tired of him and his excuses sadly the last time I took it too late I didn’t find out til this Thursday when I was getting a std checking (I was getting serious with this guy and wanted to check my health ) and found out I was pregnant I’m 21 I was hurt I called him we hadn’t talked in 2 months but he follows me on socials media and reacts to my stuff when I called a girl picked up the phone I wasn’t on anything about being in a relationship and I reassured her yet she started calling me names and saying he’s not there I just told her straight up “I’m pregnant and it’s his baby can you just give him the phone “ the phone hangs up and he calls back I picked up and he starts cursing me out saying I’m upset his girl etc etc I just repeated I wanted money for an abortion in case my insurance doesn’t cover it he hung up and blocked me on everything I don’t really care for him but I’m hurt because now I’m stuck pregnant I don’t know which direction I want to go I also wanted to be a mom I just never felt I was gonna be ready nor did I think I’ll be in this situation I have support but I’m stuck on choosing what decision is best especially since the dad doesn’t want it everyone says don’t worry about that but I have a dad and he may not be the best but he is a good dad and now my baby won’t get to experience that what if down the line the baby starts asking about him and I have no answers but a picture of what he looks like and his name (not even his last ) I feel like I’ll disappoint them and I want to be the best mother there can be with all my might I just don’t know what to do

Cheating

So, my husband has been cheating on me for the past four years, and I recently started cheating on him too. I met this amazing guy who wants me all to himself. He knows I’m married, and he’s made it clear that he doesn’t want me having sex with anyone else. However, I had sex with someone else today, and I kind of feel guilty about it. Is it normal to feel guilty toward my side piece rather than my husband?

Cheating - he’s paying for sex

My partner has been paying to have sex with women he finds online on a specific website. My baby is only 7 months old and I found out he has been doing this since I was pregnant. He won’t admit it and will say I’m crazy and making things up although I saw everything on his phone. He tells me loves me and doesn’t want to lose his family. I really wanted to have a family. We barely have conversations, sex or do any couple stuff, he spends more time at work or hanging out with friends every day off he gets. I only see him for a few hours every week even though we live together. I’m asleep before and when comes back from work as he has 2 jobs. We were only a fling and I got pregnant 2 months after us meeting but he begged me to keep our baby and to stay in our relationship, and now it feels like I’m the one who begged.
I no longer feel beautiful or confident and keep comparing myself to the women he’s meeting up with (they look nothing absolutely nothing like me). It’s affecting my whole life as I barely have any motivation to do fun stuff with my baby or to even brush my teeth and make myself look nice.
Any advice?

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