Bestie Application <3

Hello! I’m a 24 year old mom to a 3 year old and I’d love to find besties either in my area or FaceTime buddies!

I just moved to Fort Worth from Iowa with my husband and I don’t know anyone in the area. I’ve had some falling outs with a lot of my friends from back home due to unnecessary drama.

I’d love to just be able to talk about our hobbies, get coffee, have play dates, maybe start a book club? Basically anything that’s drama free, I’m down for!

I’m a yapper and clingy so definitely message me if you’re interested in chaotic texts throughout the day, book rants, gossip, and just sitting on FaceTime while we both get things done around the house.

in our community

Currently 6 weeks pregnant

So i recently had a fling with this guy it was nothing serious because he didn’t want anything serious I respected it obviously we had relations and I asked him about the risk of getting pregnant he said he was young I also agreed yet everytime I would ask for money for a plan b he would refuse and just say he was low on funds or make an excuse I knew I didn’t want a baby so I brought it we only did it three times total because I was growing tired of him and his excuses sadly the last time I took it too late I didn’t find out til this Thursday when I was getting a std checking (I was getting serious with this guy and wanted to check my health ) and found out I was pregnant I’m 21 I was hurt I called him we hadn’t talked in 2 months but he follows me on socials media and reacts to my stuff when I called a girl picked up the phone I wasn’t on anything about being in a relationship and I reassured her yet she started calling me names and saying he’s not there I just told her straight up “I’m pregnant and it’s his baby can you just give him the phone “ the phone hangs up and he calls back I picked up and he starts cursing me out saying I’m upset his girl etc etc I just repeated I wanted money for an abortion in case my insurance doesn’t cover it he hung up and blocked me on everything I don’t really care for him but I’m hurt because now I’m stuck pregnant I don’t know which direction I want to go I also wanted to be a mom I just never felt I was gonna be ready nor did I think I’ll be in this situation I have support but I’m stuck on choosing what decision is best especially since the dad doesn’t want it everyone says don’t worry about that but I have a dad and he may not be the best but he is a good dad and now my baby won’t get to experience that what if down the line the baby starts asking about him and I have no answers but a picture of what he looks like and his name (not even his last ) I feel like I’ll disappoint them and I want to be the best mother there can be with all my might I just don’t know what to do

Cheating

So, my husband has been cheating on me for the past four years, and I recently started cheating on him too. I met this amazing guy who wants me all to himself. He knows I’m married, and he’s made it clear that he doesn’t want me having sex with anyone else. However, I had sex with someone else today, and I kind of feel guilty about it. Is it normal to feel guilty toward my side piece rather than my husband?

Cheating - he’s paying for sex

My partner has been paying to have sex with women he finds online on a specific website. My baby is only 7 months old and I found out he has been doing this since I was pregnant. He won’t admit it and will say I’m crazy and making things up although I saw everything on his phone. He tells me loves me and doesn’t want to lose his family. I really wanted to have a family. We barely have conversations, sex or do any couple stuff, he spends more time at work or hanging out with friends every day off he gets. I only see him for a few hours every week even though we live together. I’m asleep before and when comes back from work as he has 2 jobs. We were only a fling and I got pregnant 2 months after us meeting but he begged me to keep our baby and to stay in our relationship, and now it feels like I’m the one who begged.
I no longer feel beautiful or confident and keep comparing myself to the women he’s meeting up with (they look nothing absolutely nothing like me). It’s affecting my whole life as I barely have any motivation to do fun stuff with my baby or to even brush my teeth and make myself look nice.
Any advice?

Looking for a bff 🩷

Sahm mommy needing a clingy mommy friend🩷

i miss my ex

is that weird but i wouldnt go back to him and cheat on my current partner

Please don’t judge

Does anybody claim their a single parent even though they are not to get extra help?

I want a year off on maternity with my baby but me and my partner are realising we can’t afford it. We won’t get anything as we both have jobs and a mortgage.

But during maternity I’ll be getting hardly anything .

Anyone done it or been in this position?

I get it if no one will comment as of course people will want to remain anonymous.