Lost our spark

Would he be willing to do couple therapy? If you love each other then I feel like trying to making it work is important, no realationship is perfect and maybe you just need help talking to each other without the risk of an argument?

Do you think it’s the hormones? Have you had a conversation about how you’re feeling either your husband because that’s the first step. When me and my partner argue we always come back and talk about it after and we reconcile. Do you do that?

Kids put a tremendous pressure on relationships, it takes an extra level of intentionality for things to keep working after children. If you still love each other, don't give up. Find the tiniest opportunities to spend time together, either when your kid goes to sleep or even take them out with you on dates if you can. My husband and I make it a priority to go out on dates atleast once a month irrespective of whether we have childcare or not. We dress up and go out with our child. It's harder yes, you prefer to go out just you both and have some privacy, yes, but the reality is your lives are now different, and it takes grace to accept it. Honestly, it's just a phase and it'll pass...can't promise it's a short phase but as long as nothing else is going on and you still love each other, don't give up. The grass is not necessarily greener out there, it's greener where you water it. Children test the strength of relationships. I support the idea of couples therapy as well, if you both are willing. Good luck 👍

Looks like you've had pregnancies in close succession as well. Hormones could be playing a massive role in this. Would he be willing to consider therapy?