Nursery food day 1 - ROCKY ROAD?

I’ve lost my lid today, please tell me I’m well positioned to do so…

My 9 month old started nursery and as part of his lunch he was served pesto and spinach pasta (fine!) which he managed well as I have been doing a combination of BLW and textured puréed food…

Then it said he had rocky road (all).

I queried this whether it was an automatic entry because that was the lunch provided for the day, to be told he had some rocky road whilst being supervised.

He’s 9 months old, has had no refined sugar in his diet in line with NHS and early years guidance, he’s certainly not had marshmallows, chocolate (sugar and caffeine content) and biscuit/whole nuts.

On what fucking planet is this an age appropriate meal?

I’m devastated as I was feeling anxious about handing over the care of my son for a day and half a week as it is but now this has shattered trust.

In addition, the initial response was that I hadn’t told them Noah wasn’t eating anything with refined sugar content at home when I inducted him…

Am I missing something? Should my child be battling choking hazards, consuming refined sugar when he’s only just cut two teeth and consuming caffeine?

No hate to anyone who makes any other decisions but this has really rattled me. Surely it’s not a “standard?’’

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This is absolutely odd. Usually they are meant to serve nutritious meals.

I would run for the hills!

When you did a walk through did they explain their daily menus?

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I'd be so super concerned!! If they are offering desserts like this, what else are they offering and what about allergies? How is that all being managed?!

Definitely make it a big deal and be so careful!

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I will, as matter of fact maybe blow it up way more.
Especially if you've been putting in the effort to give good meals- it's hard and this is absolutely bullocks
I'm glad you've raised a safe guarding concern

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Nursery food day 1 - ROCKY ROAD?

I’ve lost my lid today, please tell me I’m well positioned to do so…

My 9 month old started nursery and as part of his lunch he was served pesto and spinach pasta (fine!) which he managed well as I have been doing a combination of BLW and textured puréed food…

Then it said he had rocky road (all).

I queried this whether it was an automatic entry because that was the lunch provided for the day, to be told he had some rocky road whilst being supervised.

He’s 9 months old, has had no refined sugar in his diet in line with NHS and early years guidance, he’s certainly not had marshmallows, chocolate (sugar and caffeine content) and biscuit/whole nuts.

On what fucking planet is this an age appropriate meal?

I’m devastated as I was feeling anxious about handing over the care of my son for a day and half a week as it is but now this has shattered trust.

In addition, the initial response was that I hadn’t told them Noah wasn’t eating anything with refined sugar content at home when I inducted him…

Am I missing something? Should my child be battling choking hazards, consuming refined sugar when he’s only just cut two teeth and consuming caffeine?

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