Dropping last nap
My baby is two weeks away from being a four month old and is now fighting bedtime. I’m putting her down at 7:30 and she’s not falling asleep until 830 9 o’clock. Is this an inappropriate time to drop that last nap? What are other parents doing?
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What time does she normally take the last nap?
Have you looked into the 4 month sleep regression? We are about where you are in terms of age and all kinds of things that never happened before are happening relative to sleep. We are on day two off cutting one nap.
Sorry I don’t have advice but everything I’ve read explains everything
we are seeing.
4 month sleep ‘regression’ comes with a drop in sleep needs. Either slightly more awake time in the day with a bit longer before bed usually works. Either that or put them to bed closer to when they are now wanting to go so 8.30 ish
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Dropping last nap
My baby is two weeks away from being a four month old and is now fighting bedtime. I’m putting her down at 7:30 and she’s not falling asleep until 830 9 o’clock. Is this an inappropriate time to drop that last nap? What are other parents doing?
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