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First time mom tryin to find her bestie 🥹🫶🏻. I like gaming, and totally okay with a long distance bestie. Someone to talk to about all things baby and not baby as we go through this new faze of life.

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Lonely but also desperate to be alone?

I have a 1yr + 2.5yr old, none of my friends want or even really like kids so I don’t see them unless I have childcare organised which is incredibly rare.
My partner often works interstate meaning I can often go 4-5 days without speaking to anyone but my kids and while I love being a mum it’s also the loneliest I’ve even been in my life.
Having said this, I know I could make more effort to find babysitting and see my old friends or even better use this app to make new mum friends but after being constantly touched and talked to and cried at the last thing I want is to spend more time having to talk to people

It’s like I’m torn between being unbearably lonely and also desperate to be more alone - please tell me I’m not the only one feeling this

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Has anyone brought a venicci set from the website they look super nice but never seen anyone with one don’t want to get scammed for over £1000

Making friends

Hi, does anyone else struggle with making friends because of social anxiety? I’d like to make friends but keep to myself most of the time and find it hard to start talking to people at the baby/toddler groups

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Hi, I just need peoples opinions on my situation.

I’m currently pregnant with my second baby, I’m a young mum and had my first girl very very young. We both wanted to have kids close in age so we decided to get pregnant again with our second.

Me and my partner have our own house, we pay for everything our self’s ( he does I don’t work, I’ve never been given the opportunity to work due to falling pregnant so young).

We do get universal credit till I can work or find a job I have tried but because im pregnant I have been turned away due to not being able to stay very long at a job.

The universal credit & child benefit both go into my partners account. I literally get no money into my account. He says this is better because all the bills go out his account he also works as well and gets all the benefit money…

We have a joint account but apparently it’s too hard to switch over all the bills, and when I do ask for money or want something I have to let him know what it’s for I can’t spend money without him asking what it went on!

I also feel so terrible for asking for money I never ask for money for myself at all it’s always for my daughter and to get the baby I’m pregnant with things. I don’t mind that I love buying things for my kids but I have to ask him in shops if I can get this and that it’s so awkward. For his Christmas presents I’m literally selling some of my daughters old clothes and my own to be able to get him things.

If I do want something I have to pay on klarna then scrape the money each month to pay it off. ( I always manage to pay it off but I worry about it and struggle all the time).

I’ve genuinely resorted to selling things on vinted because I have nothing 😅 I feel so useless I want a job so badly but I’ve got a 11 month old baby and I’m over half way pregnant I’m really stuck on what to do financially. I really sound so pathetic but I want my own money to be able to have the financial freedom.

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