Ig this is more of a rant than anything. I’m horrible I know. I’m lonely as fuck, fiancé works sun up to sun down, sex is so bad, only last a minute or 2 then he gets mad when I’m upset it wasn’t longer, loves just not there anymore, he’s not even a friend at this point, we just had our second baby 4 months ago but I’ve felt this way for years. We’re both young. I kinda hate my life when I think about it to hard.
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Do you breastfeed? Having kids definitely messes up your sex life in my experience

Yessss I agree 🖤

I hope when I stop nursing I can get my libido back

I also feel like I’m doing most of the work ( with the kids ) my man not helping is very unattractive

Sometimes I feel like it’s not even worth my time if he doesn’t last long

Have you heard of primal beef? I’m thinking about trying it out after I’m done nursing
21 & living in Georgia 🤎 Looking for a best friend, preferably another mom who understands the chaos of everyday life! I’m down for local or long-distance friendships. I love a good conversation, random texts throughout the day, sharing little life updates, and eventually making plans to hang out.
I’m a homebody most days, but I’m always up for getting out and doing something fun. 420 friendly 🌿 Just looking for a genuine friendship that feels natural, where we can be ourselves and actually stay in touch. 🫶🏼

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So I split with my baby’s dad in January and all was going good for a few months till he desided to take my baby for 4 months when I got my baby back I had to call social service on him as my baby had 3 different infections wich I had to take my baby to the hospital I have had my baby back for 4 months now but I will not let his dad see him it was a dv relationship with the baby’s dad and I am trying to protect my baby from him but idk cos my family are saying I should let his dad see him
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I have two boys, 5&6, and both have severe autism & adhd. Im so exhausted all the time, my husband is around but he never helps and is cliff notes involved basically.
I have gotten some time to myself after I get the kids to school but i feel like the majority of my time is spent waiting and anticipating everyones needs over myself. I miss being able to dress up, and do my make up, i miss having friends and going out, or enjoying hobbies with others :/

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Is there just a group for yapping. Saying how our day is going and letting moms be unapologetically them ?

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My partner wants us to have more sex because we barely do now and I feel so bad. I literally have no sex drive even though I want to have more sex??? I know that doesn’t make any sense but I wouldn’t be mad I don’t have sex for a long while. I think he’s starting to feel some type of way about it. I’m also taking Zoloft for PPA and a loss of sex drive is a side effect. I’m gonna have a chat with him to let him know what’s going on but is anyone else experiencing this? I want to desire it more like I use to but idk what to do 🥴
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Ig this is more of a rant than anything. I’m horrible I know. I’m lonely as fuck, fiancé works sun up to sun down, sex is so bad, only last a minute or 2 then he gets mad when I’m upset it wasn’t longer, loves just not there anymore, he’s not even a friend at this point, we just had our second baby 4 months ago but I’ve felt this way for years. We’re both young. I kinda hate my life when I think about it to hard.
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