Am I over reacting

So I split with my baby’s dad in January and all was going good for a few months till he desided to take my baby for 4 months when I got my baby back I had to call social service on him as my baby had 3 different infections wich I had to take my baby to the hospital I have had my baby back for 4 months now but I will not let his dad see him it was a dv relationship with the baby’s dad and I am trying to protect my baby from him but idk cos my family are saying I should let his dad see him

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I wouldn’t I’m sorry you have to protect your baby at all cost even if it’s from his dad family doesn’t know what you endured behind closed doors

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NO DAD WILL NEVER GET TO SEE THAT BABY CAUSE HOW DID HE LET THAT HAPPEN

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He can apply to court - that way you can get an order in place that he must return the child after each visit

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Definitely not overreacting. You are just trying to protect your kid. Don’t let your family gaslight.

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You are reacting correctly, you are your babys protector, your family can have their opinions, you have the final say. In case he takes you to court, maybe talk to a lawyer about your rights as a dv survivor so you can feel prepared.

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Your family are deranged if they think you should let him even be in the same room as that baby.

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Am I over reacting

So I split with my baby’s dad in January and all was going good for a few months till he desided to take my baby for 4 months when I got my baby back I had to call social service on him as my baby had 3 different infections wich I had to take my baby to the hospital I have had my baby back for 4 months now but I will not let his dad see him it was a dv relationship with the baby’s dad and I am trying to protect my baby from him but idk cos my family are saying I should let his dad see him

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