We haven’t had sex since I’ve become pregnant. So about a year and a half now.
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Since our daughter was born it's every few months. We used to have sex 1-4 times a week depending on his job before we got pregnant.
I’m the kind of person who would love it to be multiple times a day but now we just do it whenever he wants to 🤷🏻♀️

We don't do it much either it burns really bad and just doesn't feel the same I dont know if it's because I have scars from the stitches or what it is

Once our son was born last December, it took about 6 or 7 months for it not to burn, sting, and hurt. And since then we have once every couple of weeks. It's difficult with my husband's work schedule and our son's awake/sleep schedule it doesn't happen too often.
So I’ve had an account with huckleberry for a few months I use it everyday and have paid for the premium subscription. However today for some reason I have been logged out automatically. I logged back in and all the data has disappeared! It’s as if I’ve never even used it before and it asked me to add a child. Everything I’ve been logging has gone and I’ve tried everything to get it back. I can’t even restore my membership, it’s keeps saying theres an issue. Ive paid over £100 for this subscription!! I’ve contacted their support email address, but need this resolved asap as it’s causing me a lot of anxiety. Has anyone else had this issue before? How did you resolve it?
Or for any reason has anyone contacted support before? How long did it take to get a response?
Please help. TIA x
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Does anyone else feel so lonely and bored? I became a mum at 41, following an infertility journey and miscarriages and ivf. I drifted apart from my friends over the years who all had their children 5-10 years ago (they would meet for play dates and I was never invited).
Now im a mum i have no mum friends. I have gone from a pressured, busy job, to just sitting at home alone. I go out alot, but cafes/ shops are full of mum friends meeting and I seem to be the only one alone. Does it get better?
I have longed for my baby and im so grateful but its a hard adjustment so far
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Has anyone decided when you will start maternity leave? I’m leaning towards starting as early as possible which would be at 29 weeks, would love to have time to fully prepare for baby and also have time to relax and take time for myself before not having much free time for a very long time
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We haven’t had sex since I’ve become pregnant. So about a year and a half now.
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It's funny, I reply but when I send out a message you don't respond. It's annoying when it shows that you're online. In my opinion, that deliberately shows that you are not interested in connecting and I'm just going to block you why waste our time
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So I called my obgyns office to refill my birth control a few days before my pills ran out. Been calling everyday since Friday and haven’t heard back from anyone about refilling my prescription! I took my last pill on Saturday. Today is Wednesday… I ended up having to take a plan b pill yesterday 🙄 and was supposed to start my period on Monday. I also had unprotected sex on Monday, now my cycle is definitely late. I’m so stressed tf out and shouldn’t have to even take a plan b pill but they’re slacking and now I’m having to deal with the consequences. 😭😭😭
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