Going back to work 4 or 3 days?

I know this will have a lot of various factors to influence it but in general, can anyone give me advice/their perspective on this?

My sister who was a SAHM is very much saying how time together us more important than money. But my thinking is:

1) do I want to be stressed during their childhood over paying the bills and mortgage
2) do I want to sacrifice being able to do bigger things/outings on the days I actually have off
3) do I want to risk my work not letting me up my days again once little one is at school

On the other hand, 3 days at my workplace may be more likely to be accepted as a job share than 4 so this may not even be a case of having an option..

Just really torn on what to ask for on my flexible work request and its fast approaching!

My partner and I have had similar incomes so we have always split bills equally too (joint account for bills and seperate account for everything else) so I'm also worried about how my income drastically changing will affect this dynamic and how to make it fair

in our community

Huckleberry app issues

So I’ve had an account with huckleberry for a few months I use it everyday and have paid for the premium subscription. However today for some reason I have been logged out automatically. I logged back in and all the data has disappeared! It’s as if I’ve never even used it before and it asked me to add a child. Everything I’ve been logging has gone and I’ve tried everything to get it back. I can’t even restore my membership, it’s keeps saying theres an issue. Ive paid over £100 for this subscription!! I’ve contacted their support email address, but need this resolved asap as it’s causing me a lot of anxiety. Has anyone else had this issue before? How did you resolve it?
Or for any reason has anyone contacted support before? How long did it take to get a response?
Please help. TIA x

Lonely

Does anyone else feel so lonely and bored? I became a mum at 41, following an infertility journey and miscarriages and ivf. I drifted apart from my friends over the years who all had their children 5-10 years ago (they would meet for play dates and I was never invited).

Now im a mum i have no mum friends. I have gone from a pressured, busy job, to just sitting at home alone. I go out alot, but cafes/ shops are full of mum friends meeting and I seem to be the only one alone. Does it get better?

I have longed for my baby and im so grateful but its a hard adjustment so far

Maternity leave

Has anyone decided when you will start maternity leave? I’m leaning towards starting as early as possible which would be at 29 weeks, would love to have time to fully prepare for baby and also have time to relax and take time for myself before not having much free time for a very long time

How often are you and your partner intimate?

We haven’t had sex since I’ve become pregnant. So about a year and a half now.

When they don't respond just block them

It's funny, I reply but when I send out a message you don't respond. It's annoying when it shows that you're online. In my opinion, that deliberately shows that you are not interested in connecting and I'm just going to block you why waste our time

My obgyn’s office is fucking up

So I called my obgyns office to refill my birth control a few days before my pills ran out. Been calling everyday since Friday and haven’t heard back from anyone about refilling my prescription! I took my last pill on Saturday. Today is Wednesday… I ended up having to take a plan b pill yesterday 🙄 and was supposed to start my period on Monday. I also had unprotected sex on Monday, now my cycle is definitely late. I’m so stressed tf out and shouldn’t have to even take a plan b pill but they’re slacking and now I’m having to deal with the consequences. 😭😭😭