How would feel/take it if your best friend told you that you remind her of why she doesn’t have/want kids?
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I wouldn't take it too personally, but it's still an unkind thing for her to say. Nothing wrong with not wanting kids but tf does my choice have to do with that??

It's a bloody hard job, motherhood, so personally, I agree - I wouldn't take it personally. But still, not the nicest way to word it, is it!? Maybe she's on the spectrum..?

I would say "thanks, I resemble that comment" and make myself a little less available to her
Does this pregnancy test look positive
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This isn't really me asking anyone. I just don't have anyone to talk to about this stuff. My first IVF cycle failed, I got 5 follicles, 3 eggs and 3 fertilised but only one made it.
For my second cycle, I had egg collection yesterday. They got 7 follicles, 5 eggs and 4 fertilised.
I think the implantation failed last time due to me having stage 4 Endometriosis but I'm just really happy I've managed to get to this part again. This is my last funded NHS cycle as I cannot afford it so I'm really hoping this works.
I'm 31 with low AMH.
Sorry just wanted someone to be excited with me 🤣🤣

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I have recently seen GP who did a referral to fertility clinic, we have been trying about 15 months. I have PCOS and am in Metformin. I have a BMI of 32 (point something). I looked up the details for the local fertility clinic and the GP didn't give much information so I planned to call. I saw on the info they may reject your referral if BMI is over 30. I am now worried, I find it so hard to lose weight cos if PCOS. Anyone have any experience of this?
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Hello! I am a 2 mum family with a little girl on the way! My partner is 38 weeks pregnant and I am so excited to meet her I am just nervous as she still doesn’t feel like mine. We done AI and found a donor and I was involved in the whole process but I think I am struggling with the idea of she doesn’t have any of my DNA. I was just wondering if there was any other mums out there who felt the same way? And how did you come to terms with it and was it easy to bond with baby when they was here?
I obviously know for a fact that she is my baby and I will always be her mum, I just always have in the back of my head that I am not biological to her and it upsets me and I want to over come that so I can be the best mum she needs 🫶🏻
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How would feel/take it if your best friend told you that you remind her of why she doesn’t have/want kids?
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Hello ,
I’m getting a copper iud tomorrow. I’ve never had anything like it.. I’m 44 and have a 3 month old on Halloween! I definitely don’t want any more 😂 Plz tell me your experiences if you’ve had one !! This was my 4th and I have a pretty high pain tolerance:)

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