The struggle of 2 under 2
How are we coping with 2 under 2?!
I'm finding the logistics of the 2 almost impossible.
My toddler wants constant attention and constant snacks. My baby has reflux, wants to breastfed all the time, hates being put down and hates the carrier. I spend most of my day feeding and holding her upright which means things like playing with my toddler, preparing snacks, changing toddlers nappy are so hard to do. I don't know what I can do to make it slightly easier?! Its 11am and I'm still in my pjs and haven't eaten ðŸ˜
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It’s just survival at that stage. I’ve got 2 under 3 now so it does get easier. I used to have crazy anxiety about the logistics of taking them both out as well.
How does baby fit in the carrier? If they aren’t sitting in it properly then it will be uncomfortable for them, I survived the newborn stage purely because of my baby carrier and actually found it easier back then than i do now 5m in x
In a very similar situation to you. These things have helped make my day/week a little easier.
I get up at 6am just before my husband leaves for work to shower, get dressed (if needed) brush teeth and hair.
I prep my toddlers snacks, breakfast and lunch the night before and wrap them in clingfilm/put in fridge. I can easily take the cling film off and finish when needed (e.g add milk to Weetabix). I fill up my toddlers two cups with water the night before so they are ready to use.
I also prep myself a large bottle of water, breakfast and lunch the night before. I try and prep things I can eat one handed and on the go.
Keep a bag of your babies and toddlers spare clothes, nappies and wipes somewhere downstairs.
If going out, pack your bags, the car and any food you need the night before.
Make a feeding basket for your toddler. Choose toys he can easily play with beside you when you are feeding. Change up the toys each day.
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The struggle of 2 under 2
How are we coping with 2 under 2?!
I'm finding the logistics of the 2 almost impossible.
My toddler wants constant attention and constant snacks. My baby has reflux, wants to breastfed all the time, hates being put down and hates the carrier. I spend most of my day feeding and holding her upright which means things like playing with my toddler, preparing snacks, changing toddlers nappy are so hard to do. I don't know what I can do to make it slightly easier?! Its 11am and I'm still in my pjs and haven't eaten ðŸ˜
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