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How do you know when to leave your partner?

Im 30 weeks pregnant, long term partner, life was perfect and then overnight he just told me wasnt sure about the relationship anymore

He doesnt want intamacy, loss of attraction has been mentioned

Lots of rows, but its my first and only relationship and I cant seem to see the otherside

Hes providing financially, for the baby and me to and extent, action kinda show he wants to be with my but words dont.
I feel like a host body for his child, he wants and adores the baby and idea of being a father but I am not feeling chosen or wanted

I love him, loved our life, our house we built but im struggling to leave

Cant decide wether to leave now or wait till babies here?

I feel bad for him weirdly that hes going to miss so much of babies life if I leave before she comes, no newborn bubble no taking her home from hospital etc

I am so torn, hormonal and not trusting my own opinions anymore. Its been 10 weeks of hell, teying to work through it and then discovered this weekend no progress has been made in terms of him feeling better and wanting romatic relationship

He wants me to be there for him, he has no family and would be very lonely which I why I cannot see why he wants to throw it all away

I just cant get over being told dont want intamacy with me, im sure he has a hormone imbalance but im worried im pinning to much on that now!

All he says for the future is he wants things to get 'better' he doesnt want to make false promises and cant see passed the current state of arguments and tension etc

We've always our whole relationship discussed and planned the future and now abruptly he cant do it 😭😭😭

So how do you know when to go and say goodbye to your home etc

I would have to move in with my pensioner parents

Contraception

I’m 8w postpartum and have my 8w pp health check this week, I’m assuming they’ll want to discuss contraception.

I’m EBF, my period hasn’t returned yet and I know I might like to have another child within the next 24 months.

It took us 3.5years to conceive our first due to some issues with ovulation so don’t want to leave it too long before trying for the second just in case it takes as long as I’m over 35yo.

I’m not sure what to do with contraception I’m considering to go back on the pill as it’s easier to stop but I’m wondering if starting the pill while EBF will kickstart monthly periods?

I’d also like to hear what everyone would do in this situation and what you are planning on doing?

Planning my escape

Want to leave my Bd. He’s put me through the upmost hell during my pregnancy. No woman should have to go through what I’ve been going through during their pregnancy. The problem is I’m still dependent on him. Not currently working but working on getting a job and I still have to be around him. I’m trying to stay not emotionally invested but I have to fake the funk until I can eventually leave so he doesn’t think something is up. My baby is due early January but hoping maybe he comes late December. I feel like once he gets here that’s when I can make my move. I think I want a fresh start and to just move to a different state all together.

Genuinely don't know why I keep getting on here trying to make friends...

It's no different than dating. You chase people for conversation and no one ever answers back. Everyone is so boring, no conversation, no interest in genuine friendships...

He’s on hinge

I and my bf met on hinge. We both agreed to leave the app but he’s still on there. We’ve had this argument twice and he told me he deleted it. I’m currently 20 weeks pregnant and while we were together a notification came up on hinge, it was a girl saying I’m down for that. He obviously knows I’ve seen it but we’re both pretending that nothing happened. I’m really hurt and I really was hoping this relationship would work out as my first didn’t work out. But I really can’t take this even with a baby involved. I’m so tired emotionally and I fell like I should just block him and remain no contact without any explanation

Serious question

I don’t understand this app do people just download the app and forget about it? This is supposed to be an an app to find friends yet people go weeks or never even respond back it’s kind of odd and frustrating. Makes it hard to build any friendships