How do you know when to leave your partner?

Have you guys considered couples therapy?

The relationship doesn't seem bad and perhaps this is something you guys can work through in therapy why he lost love/attraction could it be he is struggling with something else?

Think about the relationship that your daughter will see as she grows up. Is it a happy one, or will she see a negative relationship?
Our parents relationships are often the first ones we are exposed to, and our own relationships often mirror the good and bad habits.

Hi so sorry you're going through a rollercoaster emotionally now but 2 things: you are pregnant, very vulnerable and emotional right now so you almost definitely take things a little bit more to heart than you might have done if not in a position like this. Second: nobody ever talks about men also suffering pre birth and postpartum depression!!! They are not carrying the baby but they go through hormonal changes too and they take on a new huge mental load of the seriousness of having to provide for the family now and forever, along with caring for the emotional needs and help their pregnant partner and then mother of their child. I honestly know where you're coming from in considering a break up but please consider that he might feel very off as well, maybe even depressed and maybe he doesn't even realise

The first year of a couples baby, especially the first baby often hits like a truck and always cracks a relationship to one extend or another, have a look at statistics. It's important to preserve the relationship at all costs if both partners are committed and have love for each other. You'll come out on the other side super thankful to yourself that you stayed. That's coming from a mommy of 3 under 3🥹 by the way, once baby is there it can become even harder in some ways, pregnancy is like a pretaste of what's coming in the next year with baby but try to stay strong. There is beauty and growth in it all. If you need, I am here to chat xx

I'm sorry you're going thru this. I would move in with my parents before the baby is born, because how would he like someone treating his daughter the way he has treated you. Mental health issues is no excuse to treat someone you love like sht.

If he doesn't want intimacy with you he is normally getting it from somewhere else. Whether that be in person or online. I'm so sorry you are going through this pregnant. Honestly having a newborn with your parents around is really helpful. The relationship will only work if you both want it too and you can't try and stay just because he doesn't have family.

Do you think he doesnt want intimacy because he is getting it somewhere else? I only say that because you have said he crossed boundaries with women. Did he explain why he isn't sure about the relationship? How long is long term? X

Ok so after reading that it’s not just him being a bit unsure and a little loss of attraction and he’s just a dick, I’d honestly say you’re better off without. If he’s leading you on and dithering about with not wanting you but wanting you to be there so he’s not lonely, then he’s just keeping you around for his own selfish reasons. I’m really sorry you’re going through this, but don’t tear yourself part for a man that can’t respect you and treat you well.