Feel so angry and disappointed by friends and family who I thought would check in or want to see the baby or come over or ask how I am and they haven’t.
I can’t shake this feeling of anger and hurt. How do I get rid of it and just forget about people?
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Remember that they may be giving you space and wanting to wait to be asked to visit so as not to put any pressure on.

I think Charley may be right. I’ve had lots of people initially check in and then go quiet. They’re trying to give me time and space but when I reach out to them, they’re there. Try getting in touch with a couple of them and seeing if they can bring you some bits over or help you with some chores for a few hours. They may just be needing your permission/guidance on how to help.
Hey! Just wanted help navigating this. Ever since we found out I'm pregnant he has not wanted sex at all. It's been a few weeks and I finally asked him and he just says that he feels weird about pregnancy sex. He says especially once the baby gets big and will be moving around. I'm only 6 weeks along and currently it doesn't look like I'm pregnant but he still seems completely turned off. I want to be respectful but also I don't want to go 9 months without any intimacy. It feels like I'm being punished and then I feel like he might go find someone else to have sex with who's not pregnant, you know? Maybe that's an irrational fear but it's making me spiral a bit.

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Im just bery curious on how many men actually do it. My husband doesn't think its a problem especially at night!

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One thing I never really expected about turning 30 was how lonely this chapter of life could sometimes feel. Not because I don’t have people who love me, but because I don’t necessarily have friendships or connections with people who are in the same season of life as me.
Over the years, a lot of friendships have naturally faded, while others ended because I realized they weren’t the kind of friendships I wanted or deserved. And while I’ve made peace with that, it doesn’t mean I don’t sometimes miss having genuine girlfriends to talk to, laugh with, make plans with, and just feel understood by.
Even within family, I sometimes find myself in a different age group or stage of life, and although I love the people around me, there are moments when I feel a little misunderstood or out of place.
I think there’s something about being 30 that makes you realize how much you value meaningful connections. I’m not interested in having a huge circle or friendships just for the sake of saying I have friends. I want genuine people, mutual effort, kindness, and friendships where I can simply be myself.
I’m incredibly grateful for the love and life I’m building, but I also think it’s okay to acknowledge that you can be happy with your life and still wish you had a few more people to share it with.
Maybe this is just part of growing up. Learning that some people are only meant for certain chapters, while still hoping the next chapter brings friendships that feel like home. ❤️

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What makes a man immediately unattractive or cause you to lose interest.
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I have two boy’s 13month’s apart and I have this nagging feeling I’m not done I want one more , my partner is firm no says he is done😂
I don’t mean right now in a couple of year’s time maybe I should admit defeat 😩🙈
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Hey girlies, anyone around Katy? I can use some friends I’m literally friendless since I left all my friends and my family behind and came to America, I could use some company, I love watching kdrama, movies, Netflix, don’t let me start with food, I’m a foodie 😂 we can always chill at my place (I have two cats they’re friendly) and my baby is 7 months old boy you can bring your child over and let them be friends, we can go grab some boba coffee or anything really and talk and vent about our life and have some great moment together! Dm me❤️

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