Unattractive things men do
What makes a man immediately unattractive or cause you to lose interest.
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Jk if they chew loudly I’m setting something on fire
A man with no feelings or consideration.
A man who is scared of bugs
If hes a charming/smooth talker/easy flirt type. Instantly suspicious to me
Indecision. I have enough indecision for both parties.
Being impolite/inconsiderate/crass particularly in the beginning stages when you’re presenting your best side of you
If he talks shit about other women or children.
If hes known to get in fights or arguments with others
Say dumb shit, or argue my valid point because they are dumb and " didnt understand "
Texting or calling too much.
Gossip.
Complain.
Sex pest 🥴
A man who comes in selling your dream to you carrying himself like a man should and then turns on you and expects you to adapt to who he really is and complains about the woman and children constantly. An inconsistent man who refuses to grow his mentality and be consistent with his first impression character.
Spitting on the floor ....I find it so disgusting...
Full of themselves
Too muscular or
Bald idk I just don't like it!...
Bad talking their x or women.
Love bombing is a red flag!
Narcissistic traits!
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Unattractive things men do
What makes a man immediately unattractive or cause you to lose interest.
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I don’t mean right now in a couple of year’s time maybe I should admit defeat 😩🙈
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