Im just bery curious on how many men actually do it. My husband doesn't think its a problem especially at night!
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Every time he is near the toilet and i need it i simply tell him i aint a man, and he instantly puts the seat down.
Once it happened at night where i did fall literally in the toilet because he left the seat up and boy was i mad at him and yelled at him to put the seat down after he is done and since then i havent had an issue at night but occasionally during the day he forgets and if im near i say i aint a man and he understands what i am talking about lol.

My husband doesnt but his dad does and it drives me bonkers because who does that in someone else's house!!

My husband never does I think it’s happened only a handful of times in the last 6 years

We put all the lids down when we are done. It's rare that he forgets but it happens.

Lol. Maybe I'm the weird one. Because I always see this topic and wonder, what's it really with the seat up or down? 🤔 I'm genuinely curious.
I mostly use the seat up myself. And I don't even know why. I have mostly used it that way and probably got used to it.
The times I have tried it down, I didn't notice anything different. Well except that I had to pay more attention cleaning underneath. 🥴

My man doesnt even put the toilet seat up when he pees lol once in a while ill find pee on the toilet, not a huge deal though. Sometimes ill sit in it 🤣

My husband until I told him I almost fell in the toilet one night

Hehe my mans momma taught him to sit down 🙂↕️life saver (but he was raised in an all female household lol) . I’ll be teaching my son also to just sit down because there’s me and his 2 sisters and dad already sits to potty so little can sir fall in line and if you do stand up that seat better get put back down. (His future wife will appreciate it as well lol)

After learning that all that bacteria gets into the air and the lid reduces that, it's a requirement in my house to close the entire thing, so nope.

My husband was raised in a boys boarding school and always leaves it up. Im trying to create a way to communicate as a girl dad that we need to change this expectation. Can you imagine a little girl or two thinking this is the way that it should be??!

I think we will try for a general rule of all lids and seats down when done

Id Just had to mention the amount of bacteria that fills the air when the toilet is flushed with the lid up and ive never had an issue except with guests from time to time but yeah I go mental mention bacteria and they dont do it again

lol mines did until I would make him clean the counters and everything around because of the germs. Needless to say after a couple times of cleaning he never did it again 🤷♀️

Thanks to a clean freak mother in law my husband has always sat down to pee.

Mine always leave the seat up. We talked about it when we moved in together but it’s never something that bothered me.
Hey! Just wanted help navigating this. Ever since we found out I'm pregnant he has not wanted sex at all. It's been a few weeks and I finally asked him and he just says that he feels weird about pregnancy sex. He says especially once the baby gets big and will be moving around. I'm only 6 weeks along and currently it doesn't look like I'm pregnant but he still seems completely turned off. I want to be respectful but also I don't want to go 9 months without any intimacy. It feels like I'm being punished and then I feel like he might go find someone else to have sex with who's not pregnant, you know? Maybe that's an irrational fear but it's making me spiral a bit.

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Im just bery curious on how many men actually do it. My husband doesn't think its a problem especially at night!

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One thing I never really expected about turning 30 was how lonely this chapter of life could sometimes feel. Not because I don’t have people who love me, but because I don’t necessarily have friendships or connections with people who are in the same season of life as me.
Over the years, a lot of friendships have naturally faded, while others ended because I realized they weren’t the kind of friendships I wanted or deserved. And while I’ve made peace with that, it doesn’t mean I don’t sometimes miss having genuine girlfriends to talk to, laugh with, make plans with, and just feel understood by.
Even within family, I sometimes find myself in a different age group or stage of life, and although I love the people around me, there are moments when I feel a little misunderstood or out of place.
I think there’s something about being 30 that makes you realize how much you value meaningful connections. I’m not interested in having a huge circle or friendships just for the sake of saying I have friends. I want genuine people, mutual effort, kindness, and friendships where I can simply be myself.
I’m incredibly grateful for the love and life I’m building, but I also think it’s okay to acknowledge that you can be happy with your life and still wish you had a few more people to share it with.
Maybe this is just part of growing up. Learning that some people are only meant for certain chapters, while still hoping the next chapter brings friendships that feel like home. ❤️

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I have two boy’s 13month’s apart and I have this nagging feeling I’m not done I want one more , my partner is firm no says he is done😂
I don’t mean right now in a couple of year’s time maybe I should admit defeat 😩🙈
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Hey girlies, anyone around Katy? I can use some friends I’m literally friendless since I left all my friends and my family behind and came to America, I could use some company, I love watching kdrama, movies, Netflix, don’t let me start with food, I’m a foodie 😂 we can always chill at my place (I have two cats they’re friendly) and my baby is 7 months old boy you can bring your child over and let them be friends, we can go grab some boba coffee or anything really and talk and vent about our life and have some great moment together! Dm me❤️

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