What would YOU do?
If your partner crossed a known bkundary, lied to you for months and then lied to your face when you confronted them but they apologised and promised to stop the behaviour and you wanted to believe them, so continued the relationship.
Then you found something related to the boundary and they promised it was old and they weren't doing the behaviour and you belueved them.
Then found something else but wanted to believe it was old too so said nothing.
Then found something you knew meant they where doing the behaviour again.
What would YOU do?
I don't want to hear what I should do. I want to know what YOU would do.
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I would have left after the crossed boundaries and lied. I’ve been there before, i ain’t doing it again. Fool me once…
Honestly depends how n what it is and how serious it is, but I’d talk to him about it and why he’s done whatever it is… then go from there
The continual lying and crossing the boundary the first time - that would be the end of the relationship. I’m old enough to know now that the saying is 100% true. “When someone shows you who they are the first time - believe them”. Your partner showed you he has no respect and is a liar. Is that really someone you want to tie yourself with and have as a role model for kids? No, exactly.
Leave him
I put talk, but I do feel it completely depends on the boundary and who my man is. My man will always tell me if he's comfortable or not with my expectations of him so we can negotiate and find common ground. Honest, real, and respectful communication prevents any of that from happening. If I declare something as a non-negotiable for me and he feels the opposite is a non-negotiable for him, than we may not be compatible. Some things are worth negotiating, though, if your partner is otherwise a great partner.
I would leave him. At the end of everything, it’s about loving yourself more and wanting somebody at your side who respects you.
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What would YOU do?
If your partner crossed a known bkundary, lied to you for months and then lied to your face when you confronted them but they apologised and promised to stop the behaviour and you wanted to believe them, so continued the relationship.
Then you found something related to the boundary and they promised it was old and they weren't doing the behaviour and you belueved them.
Then found something else but wanted to believe it was old too so said nothing.
Then found something you knew meant they where doing the behaviour again.
What would YOU do?
I don't want to hear what I should do. I want to know what YOU would do.
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