I was having a rough day and I was just not in a good mood and didn’t want to be joking around and he just kept making different jokes and I blew them off whatever but then he made a comment about going down on me so much better when I wash down there and that instantly just put me in a horrible mood and when we talked hours later I told him how that made me insecure and he totally didn’t understand it and he said “he was just joking” and I’m not buying it he said he was sorry but idk what to do it really hurt me
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I'm sorry he "jokes" in such a mean manner!! My fiance does the same thing and is always "just joking" I constantly tell him how much I don't like it and it's got a lot better!! My advice is to try to not take him too seriously and be open and honest with him about how much you don't like it! My fiance has made me cry multiple time this pregnancy! Some people think they are being funny when they really are just being cruel!!

Ugh. Guys are SOOO dense sometimes! I had an ex that expected ME to go down on HIM but would rarely if ever do the same for me. I asked him why, once, and he basically said that girls are "gross" and "dirty" down there and that he didn't like it. 😒
It gave me a giant complex and I was soooooo insecure about it for basically the rest of my life. I'm married to an INCREDIBLE man now and when we were first dating, he was always so generous in bed and would happily head south. I was always weird about it though and had a hard time relaxing and enjoying myself because I constantly worried about it.
I finally confided in him and told him WHY I was so insecure and he just laughed and said that my ex was an idiot and reassured me that I tasted and smelled great to him and that he would politely tell me, if ever that changed.
Heck....I tell him when he needs to do some "grooming" down South so that I'm not choking on pubes! 😂 (I prefer that things are trimmed neatly so I always joke to him

I don’t see anything wrong with this. I’m not going down on my hubby either unless he’s fresh out the shower Lol. I can totally relate to what he’s saying. I also think it’s insensitive that you’d want him to go down on you without you being so fresh so clean. I personally wouldn’t want my hubby to unless I’m fresh out the shower. Not saying we stink but it’s just courtesy. You’re not going to eat off a dirty plate that’s been out all day.

When I had my first baby he complained I smelled like old milk all the time well when your boobs are leaking and your baby barfs on you on day long HEY this shit happens!!!! 🤬

Don't feel bad..at least he was honest if it was the case. Just clean up real nice,,you can even make sure you smell clean yourself..put on your sexy panties and sit on his face.. he won't have nothing bad to say afterwards.

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