Feeling so depressed😥

Husband started mistreating me after 23 years of marriage😥

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I'm really sorry for what you're going through ,maybe speak to him about how he is making you feel or marriage counselling.
I hope things get better for you x

May Allah (swt) make it easy for you, Sister 🙏🏿 Here’s a dua that I found and have said for you: “May Allah (swt) bless you and grant you ease. May He allow you to past through this test of patience and make you a better Muslimah. May your obstacle be filled with silver linings that will emerge in due time. May what you believe to be the worst for you in reality be the best for you in this world and the Hereafter. May He grant you the strength and endurance to keep going. May He surround you with positivity and those who have your best interest within their hearts. May every tear you shed be a way for sins to diminish, may every dua you make be granted, and may every prayer you utter be heard and granted. And may you always be smiling.”

Ameen. ❤️

Sorry to hear this sister. May Allah swt make it easy for you. Is there someone you can speak to? Maybe his family member or yours? Maybe someone from outside the family that can speak to him and see what is the issue.... & then you can go from there... seek support and guidence sis. Please look after yourself x

Sorry you are experiencing this

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