Husband wants to go on vacations without me and leave me home with the kids
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No honey you’re not wrong if anything you need a vacation. 11 and 4 years old is the perfect time to go on a family vacation and make the most memories.
It’s either he needs to compromise or you go on a trip by yourself next time and there’s no excuses! Sometimes it’s good for mama to have her own time too! I went on vacation for 10 days without baby boy and hubby and at first he was iffy about it because he would be losing work but he knew I deserved it! And I told him when I come back he can have his alone time too! But I mean you should be able to go too tho so that’s not fair
Is it an option for you to go on girls trips and leave him alone with the kids as well? Because if that's the case, I feel like that's fair. I would let my husband go on trips without me and he would do the same, but we trust each other in that aspect. It's healthy for your significant others to do things without you and vis versa.
This would not sit well with me either. I would suggest that for every vacation he takes without you that you get to take one without him! We try to do a family vacation but also take turns taking trips with friends so we get a true break! Sometimes family vacations aren’t a true break so being able to take a weekend to ourselves is important BUT it’s only fair if you get to go on trips too! If he is the only one taking trips I would 100% have a problem with that! I would also suggest taking a weekend to do something together to reconnect! ❤️
Did he ever say why he don't want the entire fam come with? You are not wrong for sure hun ❤️
Wow I am going through the same thing!! Minus I’m 33 weeks pregnant & we have a 19 month old. We’ve been together 16 years. He likes to go on a 10/11 day motorcycle trip with his buddies every summer. This is the first I don’t want him to go because I am so pregnant & also I don’t want our toddler to have all these upsets & changes right before baby! Plus what if I suddenly went into labor or had an emergency & he’s 3/4 states away!
He’s wrong to ask you to do that, maybe once every other year but not all the time, but will he allow you too go on vacation on ur own