My boyfriend keeps suggesting a FFM threesome. I have no idea where to even start looking for another female under 30 and don’t mind the idea as it actually turns me on. But with strict conditions. How did you all go about doing it?

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Tell him that it's fine, but I'll be with another man, he'll change his mind

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I don’t do this but apparently a married couple friend of mine use tinder. The guy goes on and looks for a random woman and I guess the wife then just gives her approval on the women he picks out.

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what’s an ffm threesome?

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female, female, male ?

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Swingers websites are the best place to look for these people.

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Try different apps. Even if you just have a profile then you can still be contacted.

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I think it's Female Female Male

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I was interested in this and I was the one who asked my boyfriend. I liked the idea of just trying it once. But I really didn’t want another woman in our bed or touching my boyfriend. After talking to my boyfriend and really thinking about it we decided against it. My boyfriend was worried how I’d react when reality sets in and now I’m 33 weeks pregnant anyway so that ideas dead now…definitely really think about it. Good luck chick

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yep 😂 shuts them up quick

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There’s a app call Taimi I see a lot of couples on there looking for another woman

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Agree to it providing its 2 sessions. He can have his 2 females but u want a session with 2 men. See if he is still up for it when another sausage involved .

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I had one with my man but I got to text the girls and decide if I thought one was cute and if I did he’d let me know if he thought she was cute or not. It was a mutual agreement on who but I chose first I didn’t have my self confidence demolished if he only chose super skinny girls or things like that. My rule with him was he couldn’t sleep with her but she could touch him. Eventually we got so comfortable I let him use a condom on her for a few while I watched and then he took it off and went back to me. Idk it’s your alls comfort you HAVE to set boundaries. It’s whatever you’re comfortable with.

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