Frustration at my toddler

I don’t know if anyone else is in the same boat but I am literally at the end of my tether with my toddler. He’s learnt how to be soo cheeky, doesn’t listen at all, has started to hit, screams when you tell him not to and just overall is pushing me to my limits where I feel AWFUL that I’ve shouted at him. I don’t know what to do, I feel like it’s going to last forever and he’s not the same good boy I used to have 🥲

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I feel exactly the same! This morning I’ve felt really down in the dumps thinking I’m the worse mum ever! Because like you said pushing to the limit 🥹 totally understand and in exactly the same boat! I guess we just have to muddle our way through it 🩵

I honestly cry 10 times a day because of how hard it’s getting to be around him. I’m currently at my mums and my niece lives here too and I’m constantly told to ‘take him down he’s too loud’ and ‘tell him to be quiet’ and honestly it makes me feel ten times worse. I can’t control how loud he is and it makes me want to just crawl into bed and stay there till the day ends

@Sam your little one sounds exactly like my daughter! Hard to believe at the moment that when I had her her older sister was just a month younger than she is now but so much easier to deal with. If I'd had them the opposite way round I'd be done for 😩😂

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